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anonymous
writes:I'm heartbroken because I feel like my best friend has abandoned me. Why do friends forget about each other sometimes? Is there something wrong with me? My best friend and I are both in different countries and have really busy lives, and I don't expect him to give hiswhole world for me. I've gone for months and months without a scrap of news from him, and he's never answered my emails and he seems to have forgotten me. In the past, he always told me that we would be friends for life, and that I was a special friend, that my friendship means more than gold, and he could never forget me. He won't even answer my emails... why did he say all those things to me, and then hurt me like this? What's wrong with me? Why did my best friend act like he loved me to pieces and then throw me away like garbage?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to everyone,
My best friend wrote me the other day... and he says that he cares about me so much. I never doubted him, but distance can make people crazy. I learned the hard way I guess... but I care about him so much. Thanks everyone once again :)
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reader, c-wahoo +, writes (24 July 2008):
I know how it feels to lose contact with someone close to you, especially after they made the comment "you'd always be friends." There is nothing wrong with you because You aren't the one not staying in contact. He is the one who isn't responding so the issue is on his end. Being in different countries can add to the emotional distance along with the busy lifestyles.
My thought on this at this time is that it is possible he has met a girl and his attention has been on her. If it was just work I wouldn't think there would be a reason why he couldn't respond to an email for such a long period of time(depending how long it has been).
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks... I wouldn't wish this on anyone but I don't feel so alone now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): i think that he didnt forget u but he's just really busy
sometimes i feel that my best friends have forgotten me or something but then when we meet or chat i feel that they r real friends, and that they never forgot me
be patient, if ur friendship was really strong b4 him moving then i am sure that he's busy or something
FRIENDSHIP IS THE STRONGEST THING IN THE WORLD AND EVEN THOUGH UR FRIEND DIDNT EMAIL U OR CALL U I AM 100% SURE HE'S STILL THINKING ABOUT U AND HE REALLY MISSES U AND CANT WAIT TO GET A CHANCE TO TALK TO U
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