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writes:I am 42 yrs old and with a man that i dont seem to be able to turn on unless he is drinking .Then it is not good because as soon as he cums its all over the foreplay is gone and the holding is gone and I am very depressed because of the cituation I feel like im not a woman and not capable of pleasing my man .I dont know what to do I feel like im not much of a woman Please tell me what I can do
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell nothing has changed and now i dont know if i want to be with him or not
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reader, agneeman  +, writes (30 December 2008):
 You have SO got to read "He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Brehendt... to hear this from a man's point of view. There's a whole chapter on He's Just Not That Into You if he's always drunk. You are a sexy foxy being worthy of love and you know it or else you wouldn't be here and you shouldn't be spending time with Mr Sh1ttywhatshisname. You deserve more and secretly know it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): Don't worry -- he's very pleased after he gets off, and selfish. You're wasting your energy on this bozo. You sound like you'd be a great, caring lover. You certainly don't have one in your hubby. And there are lots of guys who can do it again 'n again, even at 42. Give it a try: it won't be hard (no pun intended;)!) to find a little somethin'-somethin' on the side to meet your needs!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (30 December 2008):
Sweetheart, if your man can't get in the mood with out drink and then he has no interest in pleasing you, just himself then that is not your fault in any way.
Your only mistake is that you've just picked yourself a selfish guy who's bad in bed.
There are a million guys out there who would make you feel like the most amazing girl in the world.
Good Luck!! xx
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