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writes: i was seeing my first boyfriend for five years and i broke it off.i went out with someone else for five years and recently broke it off. in all this time we kept in touch with my ex and he never really went out with anyone. after i became single, about three months ago, we got really close with my ex but unfortunately he has a girlfriend( who i did not know about) who he has been seeing for a year or so. he now seems confused as he doesnt know what to do and i am frustrated because i am really in love with him and all these years,he has been giving signs of wanting me backplease advise what to do as i feel like i am in limbo and dont know whether we are going to have a relationship again or whether he will continue with who he is with now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe are constantly in touch and i have told him that i am interested in us getting back to gether but he says it is an issue of trust. though he wants me he says i have to be patient with him.
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reader, Manya  +, writes (9 October 2006):
At this point, limbo is probably a good (although exasperating) place to be!
I count 10 years since you first went out with this guy. He must be
very important to you, to have kept in touch. BUT, are you sure you're not just re-romanticizing
him on the rebound from the 2nd guy you went out with for 5 years?
Why did you break up with him originally? Would those problems reecurr?
Probably you've both changed, grown up, and maybe it would work
out this time. But it would be a risk for him to leave his new girl,
after he had no one for years. so you need to get to know each other
on a friendly basis and think very, very carefully. You don't want to
hurt him again. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): Why don't you arrange to met up with him and tell how you feel! And ask him how he is feeling! If he should stay with his current girlfriend then you will have to accept it and move on!
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