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writes: Help me please! i am a shy 16year old and want to know the best way to ask a girl out. i speak to the girl every day and i seem more confident around her. i also believe that she likes me. what should i say?
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reader, Abacadaba  +, writes (9 October 2006):
 Snowbird covered it pretty well, i would say meet up with friends first (like on a friday night) then you can get to know her a little bit better out of school/work/the internet (not sure where you chat to her) and if it goes well, then ask her to go to the cinema, or something else where its just the 2 of you. Ive found that always works best, because if you just meet up you might both be a little akward around each other because its the first time and having other people there means if you get a silent spot you can talk to other people, same for her, then go on to the 'alone' things ;). Good Luck with her :)
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (9 October 2006):
 Why don't you ask her if she would like to go for a coffee, or to the pictures?
If you are too nervous, make it with a group of yours and her friends, like a social gathering. It will be easier for both of you to get to know one another with an easy-going crowd around you, and no pressure on either of you.
If that goes well, you could tell her what a fun time you had, and ask her if she is free to do it again sometime. This way you can both take it at a slow pace, and get to know her on more of a one-to one basis.
I wish you luck, and hope this helps you. Let me know how you go on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): When you are alone togther you should come out with and tell her how beautiful that you think she is! And then maybe ask her she would like to go for a pizza or to the cinema!
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