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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I feel the need to hide my affection. I don't want to reveal too much of my innermost emotions.. which is understandable, but i think i take it to another level.I'm hesitant about letting a guy know i like him, even when i know he likes me. So i play hard to get or act disinterested (and at other times interested, so lots of mixed signals). When they want to kiss me and i want to kiss them and i trust them, i often times still don't do it. i can never say outright, "i like you" or "i want you".... it makes me feel like i'm giving up too much power in the relationship. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): i understand your logic but i believe that you've taken a bit too far. if you never take a chance on someone then you'll never know what you could be missing out on. maybe you should try to just take it one small step at a time. try small things like telling the person that you like spending time with then and work your way up from from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondid i do this with this guy:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-was-smitten-with-me-but-now-avoids.html
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (6 April 2008):
 Perhaps you could benefit from counselling, your GP can usually provide this service at your surgery.
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