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26-29,
anonymous
writes: OMG, im soo insecure...i hate my self im soo depressed and it sucks!! yeh i have alot of friends, but the thing is, all of my guy friends are so much better looking than me...they're ruggedly handsome, heck they're freaking gorgeous!! why do i even try??? and i feel stupid around them....i stand out like a splat of paint in a white house.....and all the girls are falling crazy over them while i stand in the back ground feeling sorry for my self.... what should i do??.... i feel so alone...and unwanted..
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (11 April 2009):
 Well the "Old Guy" nailed it very well. You are actually too young to worry about such, but I understand. Just realize that there are many more plain, but sweet and wonderful, girls than those Barbie doll types. So . . . love and lust will be plentiful for you if you just focus on being a good guy. Also include such attributes as honesty, integrity and caring for others - and things such as love and career will fall in line just fine. You don't want "high maintenance" women anyway, trust me. lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): Well the first thing you have to do is --- CHILL.
If the girls you're hoping for are attracted to the other guys simply because those guys LOOK GOOD, well, you don't want those girls.
You want a girl who has more depth than just wanting some hunk? Then carry on being yourself, enjoying the stuff you like. Are you a good student in any particular subject? Then there's a girl in that class who needs help, needs a tutor. That's a great start.
Let the "great looking guys" go off on their own. They leave the vast majority of girls behind -- the ones who don't look like cheerleaders. Be a "good guy", kind, listening and such. That leaves 80% of the girls in your school yours alone.
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