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*drienneisrad
writes:Previously I've had a hard time moving on over the guy I lost my virginity to and I think I doing pretty well. I decided that I wanted him out of my life, and I erased him completely. Last night, he invited me to a party and I said no, and even though he kept on I stood my ground. I felt pretty proud of myself. Lately, I have this feeling of wanting more and I keep questioning is there more out there. I feel kinda lost, and I really dont know what to do. Help, anyone please.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (21 June 2009):
 Congrats on moving on from the ex. It was very strong of you to do what you did, and you should feel proud of yourself. :)
I think the feeling you're having is that you're ready to jump in the dating pool again. You've healed quite a bit from your bad relationship and it's all systems go again. Try going out to other parties, hanging out with other friends and talking to some new people. Volunteer for a cause, go to a book club meeting, go to a softball game and flirt with the guys on the bench, haha. Have some fun and enjoy yourself. There's definitely a lot more out there.
Good luck.
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