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writes:There's this guy who is in one of my classes at university and I kind of like him. He always sits next to me in class and we talk about stuff other then class work. He doesnt talk to any other girls in our class. He asked me to work on a project with him. He also remmebers lots of important things, like the fact that my dad was in hospital and he always asked how he was doing. I thought that meant he cared. Anyway he asked me for my number and I gave it to him and i got his. After 4 days he hadnt contacted me, so I sent him a message asking how he was doing and if he had a good weekend. I also asked him a question about some class work if what i was doing was right. He replied with three words 'yeah that's right'!!!! What the??Does that mean hes not interested? I feel his response shows his lack of interest in me.Yet I saw him in class today and he wouldnt stop talking to me. When we are phsyically around each other I get the idea he likes me, but when I message him through email or phone he doesnt say much at all.Any ideas of why? Do you think he likes me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the replies guys, I never thought that maybe he just wasnt into texting type conversations. I saw him today and he playfully hit my arm with his hat a few times....perhaps that was flirting?
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reader, PeterPan  +, writes (8 May 2008):
 Here's my opinion... I really hate cell phones... and I used to design the stupid little things. For me, it's easier to call somebody and speak to them than punch little cryptic messages trying to spell something out from 10 little numbers on a keypad! ...uh! Totally annoying!!
So, to me, it seems like you have a great speaking rapport. Just call him instead of texting him. Cuz if he's anything like me, punching out long sentences on a phone gets tiring! Oh, and if he's speaking to you after that strange message with as much enthusiasm as you describe, yeah -- he still likes you... just talk to him until you get an idea if he's a big text-message kind of guy or not. You might even want to mention the curt little reply he gave you (don't let on too early that it really bothered you until you figure out if that's the way he replies to everyone).
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