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writes:i want a couple of months ago to cuba there i met a man which he is married with two kids, we had a affair, I'm going back very soon to see him. i feel like I've falling in love what should i feel very guilty because on top of that his aunt is marry to my uncle and the family is in the middle I want to bring him over here what should i do?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 March 2010):
 Yep it's soooo easy for Cubans to get into the US, that's why they risk drowning their entire families in cardboard boats all the time. And that's if the Coast Guard doesn't open fire on them first. Piece of cake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): Greencard, anyone? You are nothing more than a entry ticket. If you feel soooo gulity who is going to care for his wife and kids when you bring him home to you. can't be feeling much gulit if you deliberately want to destroy a marriage and family.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 March 2010):
He's just using you for sex, and maybe just to get into the USA. He's married with kids. So he's a liar, a cheat, and a user of women. Do you really want to be second best for the rest of your life. What makes you think when he gets into the US he won't just dump you and bring his wife and kids over.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): Be careful he isnt just falling in love with the thought of escaping his duties out there and living in the US. Hes a cheat and liar by definition so im not quite sure what youve fallen in love with there. Add that to the fact that the two sides of the family will be joined soon when the aunt and uncle marry....and you have a right old mess brewing up. If i were you, i would leave him well alone and seek a partner that is single and honest.
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reader, YourDestiny11 +, writes (30 March 2010):
 You should leave him alone. What part of MARRIED do you not understand. You are not only messing with he and his wifes relationship but also his kids lives. What is wrong with people. Put urself in his wives shoes. If he is dumb enough to leave his wife and kids for you then he deserves you and his wife deserves better. Get some morals and leave him alone.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 March 2010):
 People come to the US from Cuba on immigrant visas every day. Here's their website: http://havana.usint.gov.
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