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30-35,
*ady blue
writes:hi..ok amm my life i have been fat but until recently i have decided for my self that i wanted to get skinny cuz no guy was looking at me i was 5.5 feet and weighed about 235 lbs ..ya i know heavy for a 15 yr old girl but now i am 16 and weigh 174 lbs and still no guy is looking at me..although i know i am pretty my guy/girlfriends tell me that..but yet can't get the guy..i feel like i am meant to be alone..i am funny but i am shy with guys as i have been fat all my life and have been ashamed of being fat..is being a dirty naughty kind a girl help u in getting the guy. cuz i keep the limits with guys while my other friends are dirty known and get their attention..so how can i act infront of guys so they can tell that i am a good girl but at the same time tell she will be a good gf..cuz i have never had a bf before?
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reader, Crowther  +, writes (24 April 2007):
I am also fat and ugly and have never had a proper boyfriend but I won't give up hope that someone will come along one day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007): first of all dont act like someone ur not cos that will attract the wrong guy and you wont be at ease with him.your only 17 and you still have alot ahead of you.are there any guys in particular you like?spend more time woht ur guy friends just to help you feel more yourself around them.and dnt feel that u need a guy to feel better about urself or happy,you dnt and wen u are ready you will meet the right guy for you who will love u for who you are.be your beautiful self and always love you for you.hun dnt worry cos you are great in your way and someday you will find someone who knows that.as for your friends,they should not act like that cos in the long run you will come out the better happier person with good morals and self respect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007): Wow, that's a tough situation to be in, but hang in there. I just got out of college myself and I'm a big girl too. However, as much as it may seem now in high school that no one will ever appreciate that, just hang in there and they will. Those boys who aren't paying attention to you don't deserve you anyway if they're that superficial.
Whatever you do, don't compromise your morals just to attract a boy. All that will get you is a sleazy guy who likes you for the wrong reason, disrespect, and worse self esteem.
I felt the same pressures, luv, but now I'm happy. I've had a marvelous bf for over a year now who loves me as I am for who I am, and that's what you need to just hang in there and wait for. *hug*
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