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I feel as if my marriage is falling apart...

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Question - (26 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *hiquisz613 writes:

More than a question I need advice. I feel like my marriage is falling apart!.. I dont know if its because of the birth control I use. I recently read other womens reviews on the same birth control and most suffered some of the symptons I have, such as being moody, depression, cramps and a lot of other goodies!..

Between my husband and I theres been a lot of fights lately and mainly over nothing, today for example we got into over Laundry!! Seriously!!.. I dont know what to do any more, I feel so ugly, unwanted, just feels like I want to die, yet I dont want to because of my son of course! I wouldnt do it anyways but it does go through my mind! I have a lot of things going through my mind, and this is the last thing I need, I recently got in touch with my father, its been 14 years since i last saw him! Im so excited about that but then my mother is being a little to selfish!..

She's making things harder for me. Doesnt really want me to talk to him!.. I honestly dont know what to do anymore, should i go to my doctor ask for some type of medication, should i just take the IUD out?? Im always tired! I never want to do anything, I have the ugliest dark circles right now, my hair is dead!!.. Im just Horrible!! And I dont want to loose my husband!! Plz Help!!

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A female reader, Chiquisz613 United States +, writes (26 April 2009):

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Ive actually had it for more than a year. And i did feel the cramps a little bit after i had it inserted. But i didnt look much into until a couple weeks ago because the cramps seem to have gotten worse, and i suffer from constant headaches now! Thank you! Ive been thinking about this for days!! I wasnt sure whether i should remove it or not! I thought maybe i needed help for depression, as thats what my friends say, they dont believe the bc can actually cause this behavior, i just wouldnt know what method i should change too.

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A female reader, mrs.smith81608 United States +, writes (26 April 2009):

WOW! How long have you been on this current birth control? If it's more than a month-I would get in contact with your prescribing doctor and ask for something else. Your birth control shouldn't be causing you the effects it is. I trust nothing but the pill due to problems I had with Depo which made me act like you say you are acting. Talk with your husband too-tell him how you feel and that you think it's your birth control so you are going to contact the doctor asap. Ask him to be patient with you.

I hope you are able to get the help you need and deserve! Good luck!

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