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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:The man i used to date the last year told me that he didn't want a serious relationship. I didn't call him after that but he called me. I was polite to him and i met him. After that he hasn't called me again and when i called him he didn't answear. I try to not call him but it is difficult. I am thinking of him all the time and i can't get over him. I feel angry with him but i wouldn't ever express my anger. I don't want him to see that i am angry with him. I am certain that he wouldn't understand the reason. He didn't want to blame him and i don't really want to show that i blame him. But i can't yet over my feelings.May be he calls me again i am not sure that i will avoid him. How can i get over all this mess?
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reader, calamitysil  +, writes (23 November 2007):
 What is it that you want with this man? Do you want a serious relationship or are you happy for a casual relationship? Does he know what you want from him? He has made his position clear, and the ball was in your court wether to take him up on his offer or not.You are feeling angry with him because he's not giving you what you want and the reason you can't get over this situation is because there's no closure between you. To do this you need to talk to him and how you feel. You may not get the response from him that you wish, but at least you'll both know where you stand and you can move on either together, or seperately.
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