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writes: I have been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years, and we have a 14 month daughter together. My girlfriend became friends with her friend's mate, and made him godfather to our child. Since we moved into our own place my girlfriend tends to phone him quite a lot, and he tends to come around when I'm at work.For the last six months she has been very off with me, picking an argument at the quickest opportunity. We rarely sleep together, and share less intimacy. Kissing and cuddling has reduced to a kiss goodnight.This other guy (the godfather) lied about the reason he never came to our new years eve party, and she went off the handle. She seemed very upset and agitated, because he lied. I checked out her email account and found messages from him. They said he was sorry and never meant to hurt her, and that he never wanted her to choose between 2 people, and more. He eventually ended the email with, "love you loads."My girlfriend sent him an angry message, stating that she wasn't like his ex-girlfriend!I just don't know, my suspicions tell me she's cheating. I don't want to confront her, because I don't want her to lose all the trust she has in me. Also, for the sake of my daughter. Please help!
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reader, Legendless +, writes (6 January 2006):
Tinkz is completely right. This story brought tears to my eyes, as it seems you care so much about how this will affect your daughter and you haven't once mentioned about how much this has hurt you.
Your suspicions are definitely warranted and I feel that you are right. I am so, so sorry that you have been put into this situation. You need to confront one or both of them. It might be easier to catch them off-guard if you confront them when they are together. If they exchange nervous eye contact, well... that only better argues your case.
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (5 January 2006):
 You have every reason to be suspicous, but the best thing is to casually bring it up!
I don't think you want to bring your daughter up in an environment with discomfort, children can sense this and it really isn't healthy.
And if you really don't want to confront your Girlfriend then confront the childs Godfather, he is as much reponsible as she is!
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