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writes: When I am in bed with my BF, I fantaise that it is a women doing the things to me, that he is. Not any specific women. It is the only thing that gets me off. Am I gay? I love sex with him and it is only during foreplay that I do this. I do not think I would like to try it for real, so why do I need to play out this fantasy on my head to get off?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005): you might be bisexual. there's plenty of sites that talk about things like that, and while none can actually tell you wether or not you're gay, bisexual, or whatnot, they can give you things to think about.
maybe talk to your bf about these things. if he's not homophobic, then he might be a good person to talk things out with. also, try to figure out if you have some subtle homophobia. *shrug*
if you have a msn account, there are some groups on there that are decent where you can ask people things about being gay, and have someone talk you through figuring out where youl lie on the continuum of human sexuality.
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (16 November 2005):
 It is only natural to fantasize, especially in a committed relationship. Many people that do it also fantasize about things many consider taboo. For a straight woman that could be making out or making love to another woman. It is the mystery of it, something you have never done and it makes you kind of hot to think about it. I would not say that makes you gay, just a normal healthy sexually active female. You may find that sharing your fantasies with your lover will even open you both up to a new rhealm of sexuality together. I am not saying bring another lady into the bedroom but just talking about it during forplay may increase the mood.
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