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writes: Hi everyone, I wondered if anyone can help me. I am 16 and I am really friendly with a 32 year old male teacher at my school. He is like a best friend to me he has helped me through some really tough times in my life. I tell him everything, but I don't know if I should tell him that I fancy him. I feel that I am keeping it from him. I don't want it to change anything between us. Please help me. Should I tell him or not? thank you xx
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reader, StaceysInLove +, writes (21 June 2008):
well..im 14 and i've fancied my music teacher for aaaages! he's 19. so not that much of an age gap! one lesson we got talking loads..he gave me his msn and at first we started talking over that..he asked for my mobile number, we met up a couple of times and now were dating (: i go round his often and we always go out together! my friends think it isn't going to work as he's my teacher! but we are sooo happy together :D so go for it and tell him ! xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): OMG! I never knew that there were so many other people who liked their teachers, I just thought I was weird.
Gosh, where do I start. Well, I've fancied my Geography teacher for two years now. It wasn't a love-at-first-sight kind of thing, I grew to like him as I got to know him.
But now, it's kind of an obsession. I've been on his Bebo site, Myspace site, I know his mobile number [only becuase he was stupid enough to post it on the internet!], and I know roughly where he lives. I even try to get to school the same time as he does, just so that he can see me with my new hairstyle or whatever else new I have to show off.
I suppose when you fancy someone, you ignore all the bad vibes coming from them and and only focus on the good, so you feel 100% confident that they like you back, because you're only paying attention to the good signs.
We went on a school trip together once, and we had a really good laugh and I really felt happy. He laughed at all my jokes, smiled at me when he our eyes met [not that I had been staring at him, waiting for our eyes to meet.] I had really convinced myself that he liked me.
Now when I see him, sometimes he smiles at me with this great, big, beaming smile, and then on other days, he doesn't even notice me.
And trust me, telling your friends certainly won't help! There's nothing worse than the teacher walking in the room and everybody [and I mean everybody] screaming out your name and wolf whistling. Gosh and I call them friends?
And as for telling him. . . I would definitely wait until I left the school. At least then, if he knocks you back, you will probably never see him again so you won't be embarrassed every time you meet, and at the age you leave school, it wouldn't be so bad to maybe meet up with them, seeing as you would be old enough, and he would no longer be your teacher.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): omg im going through this too!!
Its got to the stage of being totally crazy, a day doesnt go past without me thinking about him!
He's married with a baby daughter and yet he is still young compared to most of the other teachers, I would guess about 30 years old.
I know he isnt the most attractive guy in the world, but I live for a chance of seeing him in the corridor, I will constantly think
'if I walk slower here then I might catch a glimpse'
I try to stop myself when I think of any excuse to knock on his office door and ask a question but it is really hard to stop. I even spend our social time out in the area his office looks into and I always am checking if he is watching us or not
This time last year I was having problems at home and at school and I ashamed to admit that I turned to compulsive lying. There wasnt anyone I could tell about the issues I was having and so the only way to make myself feel better was to get the attention of other people
I would lay awake for hours at night thinking of ways, mainly clumbsyness and accidents that would get me noticed.
Then we went on a school trip with the teacher that I still have a dangerously large crush on.
On the first day I made sure pretty quickly that all my friends knew that I wasnt feeling good, even though I was. Once the lies started then it was really hard to stop.
My friends told him that I was ill and he was really really kind to me and made sure that I was ok and stayed with me while I was eating. I felt so guilty for lying to him but there was no way I could back out then or I would have lost the only friends I had as well as his trust.
The next morning was typical, I was genuinly ill and no, it wasnt a case of the boy who cried wolf, he was really sympathetic and offered me a ride in the bus when everyone else had to walk. I was really ashamed and refused, but he insisted. I felt so awful that I just sat there and cried and while he was trying to get it out of me what was wrong, there was nothing I could do to explain.
A year on from that and the issues at home and school are worse than they ever were. Because I want to take the subject that my crush teaches next year I had to go and talk to him. My parents wern't very supportive about me taking the particular course, so when he got really passionate about how it should be my decision and I should do what I want to do, I just couldnt stand him being nice to me and burst into tears (which made it worse because he was even nicer. Just for the record I am doing the subject because I have an outside hobby that links with it, not because my crush is teaching it.
Im not asking for any sympathy for my situation from anyone, although I am sure that there are people here who have also lied to do somehing.I am simply saying that before you get yourself into the postion that I have got myself into,
TALK TO SOMEONE ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS BEFORE YOU MAKE A MISTAKE THAT CANNOT BE CORRECTED
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): I'm pretty much in the same situation, I'm like in love with my 42 year old teacher. & I'm 14. But, the thing is I just got expelled from my school today & I'm never going to see him ever again & I'm never going to be able to tell him how I feel or anything, it sucks. I'm really depressed about it too & idk what to do anymore. I do have his phone number & his address but I would feel weird calling him because it would seem kind of stalker ish. & he didn't even tell me his number I got it online. Lol.
It did seem like he liked me back though, but the last days I've been in school he's been kind of an asshole.. so yeah.
But I personally think you should wait to tell him, I mean I was going to tell my teacher how I felt because I'm leaving the school & its closing down so yeah. But now I'm screwed because my stupid principal had to expell me. But yeah maybe you should wait till you you leave the school or something, like I was going to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): OMG i'm in the same situation as every1 here i'm in lve with my science teacher i'm only in 1st year and i'm 12 and he's 27 and has a girlfriend who i've met!!But my friends found out and they don't help they jst make a jke of it when it's not funny!!But my teacher knows i lke him but i didn't tell him my friends did!!And he acts weird around me know and he nver comes over to talk to me anymore.And it really annoys me!!But there's never a day that goes past when i son't think about him and i get butterflies in my stomach just hearing his name!!Ans i always go bright red when i see him!!So my advice is DON'T TELL HIM!!Cause everything changes when he finds out!!
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reader, Kayla234 +, writes (19 April 2008):
Hey...
Ive only just found this site but god does it help!
Reading through everyone elses problems helps to understand that im not alone in this situation!
I've been completely and utterly in love with my history teacher for about a year now. I fancied him for a year and a half and then it turned more serious.
Im constantly looking around for him at school and just thinking about him or mentioning his name gives me butterflies! I work with him after school two days a week and its just me and him.
We chat and laugh about silly little things and there have been so many times that ive just wanted to blurt everything out to him.
He used to teach me in year eight but im 14 now and i dont have him anymore.
I recently went to one of my history teachers wedding coz her groom is family and when i got there my history teacher was there and i just couldnt handle seeing him sitting with his girlfriend...i just wanted to kill her.
Im so upset and depressed all the time about this and there seriously isnt one minute in the day that i dont think about him at least once!
I know already that when i leave school, i'll never get over him and will have to track him down and tell him how i feel but until then, im just gonna have to deal with it. Ive told some friends and they are supportive and understand what im going through but its just gettin to the point now that i just cant live without him and have been seriously thinkin about harming myself or doing something drastic to ease the pain of not being able to tell him.
There is an english teacher in our school that EVERYONE fancies and i like him too but not in the way that i like my history teacher...I need help or something so if anyone can then write back...
Kayla x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): Hi, I'm kind of in the same postion I mean I like my history teacher,well he doesnt teach me anymore which i suppose is good and iam leaving in like four weeks so its not something i feel worried about. Its like looking at a celebrity you fancy,nice to look at but you know you can never have them!! so if i was you i would push your feelings towards this teacher to the back of your mind and just carry on with a friendly relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008): Me too! I really fancy my art teacher ... and it really upsets me cos i know it's so pointless and stupid - like if anything did happen it would be illegal and weird anyway.
I think it's cos he epitomises the kind of guy i find attractive (arty, attractive in an unconventional way, travelled, mature) and there are aren't any guys like that who are my own age. I wouldn't tell any of my friends as they gossip and the last thing i would want is rumours getting blown out of proportion and him losing his job when he hasn't done anything.
I know it will change when i go to univesity next year and meet people who are my type, but it really does upset me and what makes it worse is that I could never tell him or anyone else ... I know that he wouldn't be interested as he's about 10 years older than me at least and he's in a relationship ... so i just feel like such a stupid little girl. :-(
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reader, british_girl +, writes (13 March 2008):
hey i'm in love with my teacher as well, my heart beats so fast i worry im having panic attacks when im near him and i breathe all shallow. i was walking back from a lesson yesterday and saw myself reflected in the glass door and he was right behind me!! my knees went so weak i felt like i was going to pass out! anyway i have him twice a week and i love that, even though its a bit of a risk, depending how the lesson goes: if he speaks and smiles at me, i feel euphoric and it gets me through the rest of the week until i see im again, but if nothing happens, i just want to break down into tears!! its so awful. i have him tomorrow, i last saw him bout 4 days ago, and that lesson was terrible, so im a little worried. im not actually sure if it is love, i mean, it sure feels like that, but i really do admire him, so maybe it could be more of an infatuation. hes really handsome, like david terrant, with dark eyes and hair, and a brill smile, and hes smart and funny and modest, even though he's done amazing things like climb mountains for charity (but he got altitude sickness an never made it to the top - i felt so sorry for him). im 15, if anyone else is in a similar situation, feel free to mail me, its good to talk bout stuff like this to people u dont know, id die if my parents found out (tho my sisters asked me several times if i fancy him - i always deny it, but its hard because if his names mentioned at home, i can feel myself turning bright red!). i dont think he fancies me - it'd be the best thing ever if he did - but often when i look up from my work, hes looking at me, but he had me in year 9 so he probably views me as the child i was then, even tho i answer all the hard questions to impress him. its really tough though. on some days, i think im doing fine, them i see him and i just want to break down into tears, then today, i wasnt feeling too upset about it all, then i accidently bashed my lip and just broke into uncontrollable sobs even though it didnt hurt and i just couldnt stop, i just curled up into a ball n my room and let it all out, because i wasnt really crying over the pain, it was him. im so nervous about tomoorw when im going to see him! i think hes gay cos my sister (who's in his form) says he gives them lectures about gay rights, and she says he lives with 3 other men (??) but id rather he was gay than with a woman ten years older than me. its so hard though. i doubt I'll ever get over him completely.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): You and I are in the same situation. Quite frankly I have no idea what either of us should do. I would say just let go because its a rare possibility that anything will happen. But its just too real, i dont want to let go. I want it to grow into something wonderful.
Well anywho, good luck to both of us! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): If you fancy your teacher, you shouldn't pin all your hopes on it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2008): Basicaly im in the same situation except my teachers is only 19, im 16 i leave school in 15 weeks, this means im no longer a student at the school. could i hook up wth him. i see him in my wildest of dreams. you get stuck and dont know what to do. just telling you YOUR NOT ALONE!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007): Im in the same situation with my maths teacher, its soo hard becuase hes alot older than me and i know nothing will ever happen between us because hes married and has kids, but i cant help liking him, i havenbt told anyone because i think people will laugha nd make fun of me.i think u should try and forget about the crush and ignore the feelings u have for him , that's what im gonna do :s xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2007): hey dont worry,if u fancy him its normal,but dont tell him
he'll not get angry but he might find it funny.i also had a crush on my 29 year old teacher n he liked me 2 just as his fav student ,i wasnt gud at his subject.my frndz used to tease me that i had a crush on him but i said no i dont hav any crush on him.i didnt used to come in skool when he did not had a lesson.n my frndz used to tell him dat she didnt came in cuz u didnt hav a lesson with us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): you should never tell tell anyone older than you that you fancy them. it brings along heartache,embarrasment,and a lot of explaining to do take you time dont rush things .its ok to have a crush really it's cool but trust me just leave it at that never show your true feelings untill you have some years behind you
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2007): I also currently have a crush on one of my teachers, my Maths teacher. I'm not particularly close with him, but I just really, really like him. I think it's because I love Maths, and he's a good teacher, plus he's quite sweet.
Anyway, I know nothing can come of it, so I would recommend that you just enjoy your fantasies, maybe work hard in his subject so this teacher notices you for all the right reasons, and never tell the teacher that you like him. Because even if (1% chance) he likes you back, anything you two do together could result in him losing his job.
Help that helps, dear.
Pizzi Crouch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2007): Dont tell him about it coz it only affects the good relationship you had with him, a teacher and a student thing. Its good just to tell him that youre appreciating the advices and help that he gave, thats it.
Youre 16 and get easily infatuated but if you try to focus yourself with something else, it will help.
I aso experienced having a crush on my teacher but i dot take it seriously as it only affect my studies and hes my teacher for goodness sake!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007): hi hun i have a teacher like that in my school but i wouldnt tell him it will change things besides nothing could come of it and it is more fun not lettin him now lol xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007): I'm 16 and going through exactly the same thing.My teacher was there for me when i was suicidal, and going through being an alcoholic.It might seem like love,but its just a crush.and thik about it, does he have a wife/ girlfriend? how would they feel. How would you actually feel if he left them for you? or was having an affair with you?It hurts, and you might allways feel this way for him, but soon your find someone that loves you fully, for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2007): Omg you are 16 and have a life he hasnt. Just forget about that CRUSH on your teacher. If you tell him he will laugh at you, just forget and move on girl. Seriously get a grip.
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reader, x.xpennyx.x +, writes (14 March 2007):
Hi to 'AHeartsBrokenEvent' soz only just got the comment you left. I sent you a private message but incase u didnt get it then yeh sure we can talk on msn it'd be cool :D Give me your addy in a private message n Ill add you xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2007): lol, in the same situation, i love my teacher and he is soo hot (only to me cos everyone else thinks hes fat and ugly) but i love him alot and i think he loves me cos he keeps brushing my arm and smiling and watches me alot so yeah, wait til ur gonna leave school forever then tell him and ask him what he thinks, cyaaa xxx
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reader, AHeartsBrokenEvent +, writes (2 March 2007):
Penny I am in the exactly the same situation=[ Please can we talk on MSN or summet? I know this might sound strange as i dont know you! but your situation is like mine! xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): i would not tell him if i were you...as i am in the same situation sort of with my teacher(although i have never considered telling him), he's always there for me, and helped me through tough times...and yeah i guess i can dream that something might work out between us...im not gonna give you the advice of "forget it you can never be with him" like all my friends give me....because hell you never know what might happen...but if you two are meant to be together then it will happen....but if you tell him, and he doesn't feel the same way then it would be very awkward, and its good that you get on so well like i do with my music teacher, but im sure you don't want to ruin that close friendship by telling him...
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reader, x.xpennyx.x +, writes (29 November 2006):
Hey again. This keep happening! I keep writin too n it dont come up. Its good to heat that you've moved on but its well saddening lol cos i fink he really likes you n i feel sorry for him. Bless him lol. I still like my teacher...haven't spoke for a while im waitin for him to get in contact with me :) Good luck with everyfin :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006): hey penny soz i aint wrote nefin in agessss! i did but it wouldnt cum up, to be honest my feelings are not as bad as they used to be, a few months ago i thought id never get over him, and even though i still really like him and have deep feelings i have learnt to respect the fact he has a gf of 4 yrs nd that i care for him farr to much to spoil all that. on friday i was outside skool with my boyfriend, whos 17, he was starrin the whole time, he looked soO jelous, and when i went to talk to him all he said was hi, looked at my boyfriend n walked off *not like him* i think he has realised that i have moved on, i get much more lads being interested in me now, and i think he has realised that, and so have i. i do still like him, and that wont ever change, well not for a long time! but i want him to be happy and he cannot appect me to not have a boyfriend, and i cannot do nefin coz e as a girlfriend, so what do i do, move on, it herts sayin that! but its true but if he didnt have a girlfriend things would be different, i would of told him by now, the age gap is not that big, but its not bout that and i dnt fink anyone can stop lovin sum1 coz of a few stupid yrs! x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006): hiya, well girl I think you should not tell him, things will change, and only for the worst teachers are there to help but not in a personal way. Because he has helped you though some really hard time you will develop feelings, that is naturally.
If you tell him and he feels the same and wants a relationship then he is not good for u (1) he will be breaking the law (2) as a teacher again he will be breaking the principle law of teachers YOU DO NOT HAVE REALTIONSHIP WITH YOUR PUIPLS
All I can say is if you leaving school this year then tell him when you leave you will be out of the school environment and you should be 17 by then, and if he dose not feel the same a least you don’t have to seem him everyday. Also when you start college you will meet some many guys, then the world is you oyster if you like the older guy then you have guys from teens, 20’s and 30’s
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): I am absolutely head over heels about my teacher....gosh. And he is married and he has kids. But I want him so bad. I want him in a relationship and I want him sexually. To be honest, if he wanted me too, I would do it. I know how you feel sweetie, sometimes its best to keep it a secret, but sometimes you might just want to say it. You decide. Keep your head up, and dont listen to all the people saying "YOURE SICK! IT WILL NEVER WORK!!!!!!!!" becuase you never know.
xoxoxoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006): The last time I posted on DearCupid.Org was during the summer. Back then, I was thinking maybe I'll forget about the teacher I'm in love with some time during this year, as I no longer study his subject. Unfortunately, I think I'll have to take another "All I Want For Christmas Is You" marathon this year, thinking about him...this will be my third Christmas doing so...
He's in his late 30s / early 40s, married with four adorable kids [I think the oldest is about six or seven years old, the youngest being just two]. I've tried many times to move on - especially now that I'm in Year 12, I've discovered so many more mature guys out there.
*sigh* I still can't move on, despite all. I discovered that I still have to see him three times each week due to some extracurricular activities.
It's been quietly known that he hasn't been happy with his marriage in recent years - I'm not even looking for a chance to be with him...I just want him to be happy.
He's not "movie star handsome" [i.e. blonde hair and six-pack], but he's definitely good-looking, at least to me. He's a Scot, with dark hair [kinda greying but that only adds up to his good looks], grey eyes, and a smile to die for. Also, he's very shy [such a cute feature...] and modest - he'd much rather die than admit to his achievements.
Oh yeah. He's also really nice and absolutely hilarious.
What's there to not like about the guy? *sigh* I can only wish that he'll some day find his happiness though...
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reader, x.xpennyx.x +, writes (18 October 2006):
Hiya. Lmao I could jus imagine sayin 'babe' to him. I'm quite quiet so I think he'd faint if i said it. I saw him on Monday. I was so scared. I was in his room talking to him and he got this text book n came n stood next to me n started goin though it wit me so I moved rele close to him lol it was so funny. Got to see him 2moro aswell. Have ya ingored him yet? It'll be good to see his reaction. It was nice of him to say hi to ya wernt it :) Yeh I got msn. Whats ya addy. Speak soon xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2006): hiya! i wanna do wot u mentioned.. ill try it! well he went past dwn the corridor past my form nd i was there, my m8z were messin bout but i was just stood there nd e sed hi, lol. wicked i cant believe that actually happened how kwll!!! lol try flirtin, i know e has a wife like, but it wud b a bit of fun, only sumat small like bye bbabe??
ne way i dnt have my own e-mail but i ave msn do you???
i ope u r right bout him XxX
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2006): Hi. When I was 15-16 I had a major crush on my teacher. But I think due to the fact she was married and in her late forties that took away any temptation. We all get tempted by things but I dont think its a good idea. He's your teacher and so that is just a professional relationship. Plus the fact that if when you say it it comes out badly or he gets embarrassed maybe things could become awkward. Your education is what is important here so its best not to risk that. Your crush will pass and you can find someone with whom you can be with without unnecisary complications.
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reader, x.xpennyx.x +, writes (15 October 2006):
Ohh yea 1 thing. I was wondering do you have an e-mail address cos maybe we could swap and talk by that. Don't matter if you dont want to but I was thinkin we talk all the time on this site and its kind of weird knowing theres probz loads of people on the web reading our conversation lol. Its upto you xx
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reader, x.xpennyx.x +, writes (15 October 2006):
lol I was in total shock I tell ya that! I dunno this is seriously confusing...it's like he likes you but he doesn't want to admit him to himself. What dya fink his reaction would be if u gave him the evils lol. Maybe u shud start confusing him by one day looking at him n the next day totally ignoring him. See if he notices! Yehh hes allowing me to do the course! Omg the things he was saying to my mum bout me! He said im head n shoulders above every1 else in the year n im at my own level. Hes now awarded me a speech day award which i have toc ollect infront of the whole school and parents. Seriously the things he was saying was AMAZINGG!! Hes setting all the work out just for me and last week i had to speak to him twice in the corridor and 2moro (Monday) i have to go see him so we can arrange a time to go through what i need to do. That means me n him in his room alone talking. I am SOO scared!! Im even nervous bout going to see him 2moro just to arrange the meeting. How will I survive!
Maybe he didnt say anything wen u sed 'out of breath' cos he cudnt hear u or was in a rush or sumfin. Strange init. Luv me xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2006): oh yeah ndd i cnt believe he foned ya house, i cud amagine that id be like hiya bby lol!!!! bet it was like a dream lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2006): omg ive sent 3 and they stil ant cum i dats wkd so ya guna c more of him woop woop! on friday e was starrin at me and wen i looked at him e looked away??? i really dont get it, on wednesday e went past n e was breathin ded hevy ndd i went ' out of breath really flirty n e dint say out but then next day es smillin n starrin n that i dont get it? my bruva has him sumtymz n e was answerin bk 2 him n e went just like ya sister??? do u get it cos i dont ndd its confussin me sooo much? so wots happened then? ave u got him n do u talk 2 him quite alot now?? hope so x x
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reader, x.xpennyx.x +, writes (7 October 2006):
I no it aint hard to talk to someone but im just too shy to be honest. Anyway I better get ma act together cos in a few weeks i might have to spend alot of time with him! Last night I went to ring ma mate but there was a message on the answer machine so i listened to it n it was from him!!!! Bcos r.e is ma fave subject n i can only do the short course my mum knows how disappointed i am so she went to the skewl reception yesterday n asked if she cud meet him so he had rung n left a msg bout an appointment 4 nxt wednesday wit my mum cos my mum wants to no if i can be set more work by him thru the year n he can help me and support me so i can do the full course and if he says yeh itz possible ill have to talk to him all the time n everyfin lol! I was SO terrified wen i heard his voice on the answer machine! I bet ya could imagine lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2006): yh ino but he really used to look and flirt. y dont you just go up to him and talk why do you need a subject? you could just go hi, how you been doing? its not hard!!!!
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reader, x.xpennyx.x +, writes (6 October 2006):
My mates take it quite well...they are like 'look there he is' wen hes nt there n they try tease me bowt it n it can be funny but i fink dey sumtimes shout it too loud n im worried incase ppl catch on. ma new re teacher who i have now said we chnage teachers 4 the differnt topics we have in re n he said tht we have th teacher i fancy! i found tht out a while ago but now im desperate to find out if and when we have him! its becoming a big obsession to me now! hes on duty around one of the blocks on a friday and wen i hang round there i see him talkin to ova ppl then i see him on his own and i so badly want to talk to him but i cnt think of a subject plus id b sooo scared. n my mates refuse to ask him a question so itz so annoying. wish ma teacher wud stare at me lol. i seen him look a few times but u cnt go round skewl n nt look at someone can ya! if u no wot i mean. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2006): trust me if i went 2 ask him bout sumat i wouldnt no wot 2 say cos e int involved in anythin ndd all e is now reli is a geography teacher hu walks past the corridor evry now n then! NON of my mates have him, b'cos even the 1nce that tuk his subject ave anuva teacher. wen i go bak in im guna start talkin 2 him on fridays, wen es on bus duty cos i normally c him lookin so ill go up. no e found out 1st cos i went up 2 him n said my mum fancied him lol ( which was a lie) ndd then he went why?? n i went well i cant blame her ndd then my m8z found out n... in lesson last yr though e would jus sit there starrin at me ALL lesson my mates would go, omg he was just sat there starrin at you all lesson n id b like :P:P:P lol es mazin n i miss how we used 2 talk n flirt :'( well, its annoyin wen ya mates find out cos ya like shut up, dont say out arnt you? but mine did, ndd im quite glad now actually. xXx
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reader, x.xpennyx.x +, writes (5 October 2006):
How on earth did he find out that you fancied him? Did someone tell him then you admitted it or summin? I was finkin it wud be so funny if he found out I like him but I wud avoid him in corridors which wud be bad cos then I wudn't see him. Does any of ur mates have him as a teacher? Or is he involved in anyfin else around school what you could ask him about in the corridor? Im too shy. I would gobble all ma words up and run away lol. Love's sweet init xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2006): i know, i have only known him a year but it seems like ive knew him alot longer, its buggin me how we dnt talk ne more nd i hardly see him, plus ive been off ill for 3 days, i tryed 2 go in yesterday just 2 see him, cos i miss him reli easily :S nd now im off again cos i got sent home cos i was coffin like a maniac lol.i keep dreaming of me gettin run over and him coming to visit me with flowers lol wish it wud appen. i hate it wen e first found out i liked him, cos it was ded weird cos i wud normally go talk 2 him af2 evry lesson ( wen i add him las yr) but then i cunt cos i found it reli aczuad but af2 a bit i knew e was flirtin so i did it bak lol, i missssssssss HiM lOaDs n LoAdSsS!!! cyoo x
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reader, x.xpennyx.x +, writes (3 October 2006):
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