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writes:Ok this might seem like a weird question but here goes - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We have a 3 month old daughter together. I had never ever given oral sex before i had met him to anybody (fear). I faced this fear recently and decided to give it a shot. I can do it.. and he seems to think it's good.. but i won't let him cum. I'm terrified of it. It smells kinda weird, its sticky, thick, lots of it and it's just YUCKY! He said he wants to be able to do this with me even if he just cums on my face not in my mouth but it's just as bad. It's so gross. I want to be able to do it but every time i think about it i wanna throw up. what is wrong with me? how can i get over this?
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reader, Kristena  +, writes (28 November 2009):
I'm 32 and when I was young like you I felt the same way. I never liked giving oral sex and never really completely did it until I was about 25. For me it's not something I love to do but it's not so bad anymore. It makes me happy knowing I'm making my Man happy. Some guys dont seem to care much about oral and others have to have it or they aren't happy. I think your just not used to it and your still young but maybe over time it wont be so bad. But, you should never feel forced to do something you dont really like to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): There is nothing wrong with you. The penis isn't supposed to be inserted in a woman's mouth and the ejaculate isn't supposed to be swallowed or used as facial lotion.
I also think it is a gross act that it is suitable to those people that are happy with it. It's just that it is not you and you are one of many. Tell your boyfriend that you do not want to do it because you dislike it and that should be enough of a good reason for him to stop bothering you about it.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (27 November 2009):
 i mean, i don't blame you. i think some people are just come-phobic a little and i think that's acceptable. is there ANYWHERE on your body you wouldn't have a problem with him coming-- maybe your hair, where it could get kind of 'absorbed' or your belly, or just your hands?
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