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How do I find out if he's marriage material?

Q.   I have been dating a guy for about 4 months now. We are "exclusive" (whatever that means today, everbody seems to have a different definition) I guess he is pretty much my boyfriend we don't date other people. I'm 32 and he is 31 years old. He ...

A.   4 December 2009: UPDATE: So it seems he is still hurt or whipped on his daughters Mom. I sent him a random text just out of curiousity to see what he said. I was going through some old text in my phone and saw some messages from him when we first met. So, I text ... (read in full...)

Self destruct button...

Q.   We all have depressing and down right crappy days, weeks, months hell even years. Why is it that as women we try to punish ourselves just a little bit more? Ever found yourself feeling so down that you've hit the bottle or closed yourself off fro...

A.   28 November 2009: Yes it must be a women thing!!! I have been doing this for the past 2 days. I got bad news so I had a whole day of staying in my pjs and not even going out of the house crying. Then I guess I had to make things worse for myself!! Even though my ... (read in full...)

I faced my fear and gave him oral but I couldn't handle it if he came anywhere near my face...

Q.   Ok this might seem like a weird question but here goes - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We have a 3 month old daughter together. I had never ever given oral sex before i had met him to anybody (fear). I faced this fear recently ...

A.   28 November 2009: I'm 32 and when I was young like you I felt the same way. I never liked giving oral sex and never really completely did it until I was about 25. For me it's not something I love to do but it's not so bad anymore. It makes me happy knowing I'm ... (read in full...)

Why does he think this time will be any different?

Q.   okay here the deal. my husband and i have been having problems for the last six months. just the other night we got into a heated argument to the point it almost got physical luckily he didnt actually hit me. I kicked him out the next even...

A.   28 November 2009: Don't agree to work things out until he actually starts getting help. Once you see he is making the effort agree to work things out if that's what you still want at that point. There are alot of classes and programs out there that are free or ... (read in full...)

I've loved her for all these years but she's married

Q.   Hi I dated my class sweet heart in high school for 4 years, I went into the Army right after school, I broke up with her the day before school got out, because I was off to the Army the next day. 8 years later I got out, about six months later...

A.   28 November 2009: Well...You do have to follow your heart and if that's not possible then you need to move on and try to find happiness. You can't put your life on hold forever. Just like in my case I have tried to move on but just havent found anyone that has ... (read in full...)

Why are bigger breasts better?

Q.   I know this has been asked a million times, but why are big breasts better? Honestly give me the reasons of why they're superior to small breasts when it comes to SEXUAL PLEASURE. Nothing to do with not having back aches, or that big breasts produce ...

A.   28 November 2009: I know where you are coming from I'm 32 but have always been skinny and small boned. I sure didn't get blessed in the boob department but I got a booty I guess to make up for it. I think these days guys are so obbssessed with fake breast, it's ... (read in full...)

How do I find out if he's marriage material?

Q.   I have been dating a guy for about 4 months now. We are "exclusive" (whatever that means today, everbody seems to have a different definition) I guess he is pretty much my boyfriend we don't date other people. I'm 32 and he is 31 years old. He ...

A.   21 November 2009: Thanks for your responses!!! Just to clarify he has never been married just had a child from ex girlfriend that he was with on and off for 5 years. I know I try to rush things...I guess it's my clock ticking. But, my brother once told me that a man ... (read in full...)

I've loved her for all these years but she's married

Q.   Hi I dated my class sweet heart in high school for 4 years, I went into the Army right after school, I broke up with her the day before school got out, because I was off to the Army the next day. 8 years later I got out, about six months later...

A.   21 November 2009: Wow...It sounds like she was in love with you and you still have her heart. Seems that she might have settled for her now husband just because you weren't around but she always really loved you. Now that she is married you don't want to be the one ... (read in full...)

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