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*shley321
writes:Ex-boyfriend is getting married this December! I am so hurt, it's so painful that I don't know how to handle my feelings... Everything from anger to hurt to jealousy. I can't seem to get over this man, even though I meant nothing to him all these years, just sex until he found the "one"! I want to be able to deal with this pain with dignity, please help! The day of his wedding is close to a special day to me, but all I think about is getting through his wedding date! So hurt!
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reader, cheannryl  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 Darling,if it's meant to be it will be.Remember,each one has a partner.Maybe he's not meant for you,surely you'll find your man that will love you for always.Just be patient.Trust in God.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): Hey there!
I cannot completely relate to ur situation however I did experience a breakup then ex GF got married six months later. I feel this situation def. I was angry, in fact, I sent death threats to the guy.
Look at this way: Your relationship ended for solid reason...if it was just sex, then he offered you no personality which is key for a lasting relationship. I'll be damned if I ever get with a girl just cause she can suck start a leaf blower lol...if she's full of rocks, I'll get bored. I need both. This guy obviously didnt provide it and now that has given you the opportunity to find your guy.
I will say you probably made some mistakes in being with him if it was just sex. However, Im not one to judge as Ive made some dumb relationship decisions myself. Learn from those and apply them to ur future. If u leave the emotion in it, it will disable ur ability to learn as it will cloud feelings and ur analysis of why things happened the way they did.
Once you can conclude on your lessons, you can take your time to recover, and then hopefully find ur new man. Best to you miss.
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reader, whiteelephant +, writes (16 October 2010):
im not sure if this is the answer you're looking for or not, but I'd say let it under your skin. let the pain have you, its ok to have it. channel it into writing, poetry or art. you can create something really beautiful and touching out of it
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