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writes: I hate my body i am 15 stones just 5 10" i eat and eat and eat then throw up i do this at lease 5 times a day i try to loss weight but it never happens i so fat and ugly i don't understand how others think im beautiful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): GET HELP.search for self esteem and body image and bulemia help websites and geta councilor find talklines a DOCTOR would be good if you can talk to close friends and family and partner about it then do thatyou MUST MUST MUST get help.you HAVE TO get yourself in the right frame of mind because this happened to my best friend and i wont go into details but it just made her life horrible and mine too and everyone around her!! and you DONT want that to happen to you!listen to songs like "beautiful" by christina aguileraand "stupid girls" by pink watch the vids too.tell yourself "im beautiful and curvy and curves are hot!" 10 times every morning and night when yu get up and before you go to sleep say it to the mirrorstore and record every compliment you ever remembered receiving- write it down as notes and stick them up on your mirror these were some things my friend did to help herselfhope they help!everyone deserves to enjoy food! and should be able to eat it in the right way!you are beautiful! :)
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reader, eltapatio  +, writes (3 December 2008):
whenever u feel gross from eating or want to puke up your food. just run. run and run maybe even cry if you need to. run out all that bad feeling. then when your feeling better. walk back home and sip on some water. not only is running great exercise but it can really clear your mind. no, i am not some fit lady preaching to u. i am a 15yo girl who recently reccovered from bulimia. plz just try this. let me know if it helps.
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reader, xxbecksyxx  +, writes (2 December 2008):
 Hun, what you are going through is extremely dangerous. I read a story of a girl who died from this sort of thing. Please, please, PLEASE seek medical help. Don't waste your life; its valuable and you only get to live it once.
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be +, writes (2 December 2008):
 Your condition is known as BULIMIA NERVOSA, or "binge eating." It is EXTREMELY dangerous to your health. Go and see a doctor, in private if you have to, and he/she can refer you to any local groups or orginizations that could help you.
Alternativly, if you still can't pluck up the courage to tell someone about this, I know of a website that could help you find help groups local to you:
www.nedic.ca
Try the search function: I was not able to explore it fully, as it is specific to Canada. I hope it helps.
You MUST do something about this condition, else it could kill you. Listen to your family and friends when they tell you your beautiful: they'd know best, and they're probably right. Stop doubting yourself, else you'll end up in a spiralling bout of depression.
I'm sorry about how blunt I may have been in this answer, but it is crucial that you do something to stop this. I would be happy to tell you more about it all: you can mail me through the site if you like.
Best of luck!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 December 2008):
 Gather every single bit of your courage together and tell your parents that you need to see a doctor right away. This is very important; you are doing damage to your body and it needs to stop right now. You only get one body, and imperfect as it may be, deliberately trying to damage it is just not a good idea.
Have a look at the NHS website to get some help. It's very important that you get outside help; you may think you can handle this yourself, but why take that risk?
http://www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk/zone.aspx?zonename=Health_Zone
Take care and keep well.
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reader, happy24birthday +, writes (2 December 2008):
 It's so good that you recognize a problem and are seeking advice. If at all possible please talk to your mother and seek professional help. My niece had a similar problem, has been in couseling for 2 years, and is doing much better. You cannot continue to do this to yourself. Please, please, please seek professional counseling now.
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reader, katatonik +, writes (2 December 2008):
 What you are describing is a medical condition known as bulimia and it is EXTREMELY DANGEROUS to your health. PLEASE see a doctor about this as soon as you can. Please. Good luck and keep us posted =]
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