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*ptonGirl
writes:Hey Its Valentines Day Soon and i don`t know what to do. i love my boyfriend fraser more than anything and me and him and all our friends are going to the cinema together. most of us going is full of couples e.g me and fraser, jasmine and hugo, edwin and amber, sadey and rachel, charlotte and aiden. but my friend jenny doesn`t have anyone and she is always unhappy that she is single and complains a lot. me and fraser both want to spend the day together kissing and hugging. but i don`t want jenny to feel bad and ruin the day cos it will make me unhappy and i will feel guilty kissing fraser. i don`t know what to do ? help please xx
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (12 February 2010):
 I would say, next time, dont go out in a group on Valentines day!If you want to spend all the day kissing and hugging your boyfriend, then go to the cinema on your own as a couple, or stay at home instead. There are many ways to get around this situation.When you are not in a relationship and everyone around you is all coupled up, it can be very lonely when out in a group, because everyone else is focused on their BF/GF. In some ways this was actually quite a mean thing to do to her, if EVERYONE else has someone to talk to and kiss at the cinema. Being teenagers, I expect most of you will not be coming up for air much due to the amount of kissing going on? Most of the time you are completely oblivious to everyone around you, and people can and will get a bit fed up with it. If all your friends are doing this she will feel like a spare wheel. Make sure you talk to her and include her in the group so she doesnt feel left out. I know it is valentines day, but try not to rub her nose in it, and next time maybe just arrange to do something with your BF alone, where it doesnt matter how much you kiss each other.
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reader, xlittlemisstroublex +, writes (11 February 2010):
if shes your friend she should understand that's it valentines day of course your gonna wana kiss and hug a lot i do even when it aint valentines day so all the more to do so on the one very special day for couples.
pluss maybe try to set her up with someone you know maybe a blind date or something it could lift her spirits loads.
hope i helped
gd look and enjoy valentines day with your boyfriend!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 February 2010):
You spend the day kissing your boyfriend, but don't do it full on in front of your friend. Be a little discreet. Of course you should kiss your boyfriend, but don't make it massively obvious or over the top. Enjoy Valentine's Day.
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