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*eadEyeDick
writes:A friend of mine, who happens to be a girl, has been hanging out with me a lot more, lately she even fell asleep in my bed, and when I woke up she had her arms around me and her head on my chest, she claimed to be shocked waking up in this situation, I can never get any kind of definite signal from her, and I do not want to fuck up our friendship by putting the moves on her, if she doesn't like me like that, as i really enjoy being around her, and will take her as a friend any day, but I also don't want to let anything that may be there, go untapped and lose out, as I really think we would have fun together, sometimes she comes over and spends the whole weekend hanging out with me, then i go like a whole week and don't hear a word from her, I just wanted to get some feedback from you all, as this regularly wouldn't be a problem except for I just don't want to mess up our friendship, what do you guys and girls think? Reply to this Question
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (20 August 2012):
DeadEyeDick is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you everybody, it seemed all she was after was loving, im not bitching, just a bit shocked, it's not to often I get used for some ass, one half of me is pissed off about it and a little hurt, but I guess the prominent feelings in me want to smack someone a high five, maybe it's the devil in me???
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reader, Icey1978  +, writes (23 July 2012):
Ask her straight, it the only way. At the end of the day, if shes a friend, then she will stick around either way. If not you might be in for some loving! Just go for it!
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reader, Abella +, writes (21 July 2012):
 Ask the girl out for a nice happy outing. How many more signals does this girl need to give you before you are prepared to do a little more of the running in this friendship? Initiate some fun outings. Not one but several. Keep it light. Don't push. Let her get closer to you in stages.
When you feel even better give her the classic "I like you, but I am not pressuring you" kiss in the middle of her forehead.
Things may hot up after the above, if she is really interested.
Seems she does not need convincing. But you do need to feel on surer ground before you will make a move
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