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writes: This is a hard question to ask . Please don't judge me by this ok . I have the most amazing boyfriend anyone can ever ask for! He's the very best ! I would never ever want us to seperate I love him soooo much! He loves me too. But recently I have started liking this girl ... She's been my friend for a while and recently told me that she likes me and I like her too. I've never liked a girl before so this is weird for me to like her ..... No other girls have ever made me feel this way. Honestly I think it's because she dresses and acts like a boy ..... IDK! She wants me to go out with her but I really don't want to break up with my boyfriend I LOVE him soooooo much!!!! But I like her alot too. And like I said it's very weird for me because I don't think I'm bi because the thought of being bi used to kinda freak me out in a way and It's only her I have these feelings for ..... But I don't wanna leave my bf . DO you see my problem. Got any advice ???please tell me your thoughts*~VG~* Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): rcn made a great point! And you really shouldn't leave your boyfriend if you love him. I think the thing that this could be called is temptation because you already have your boyfriend but your friend is sort of tempting you to explore your bisexual side. If you think you would regret breaking up with your boyfriend for your friend then don't do it! And it's never right to cheat.
Good luck- keep us updated!
xx Hope xx
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reader, rcn  +, writes (25 March 2008):
 Just something I read a while ago, but makes absolute sense: "Don't leave someone you love, for someone you like, because the someone you like will leave you for someone they love."
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): Cheating is cheating and you have a good relationship with a loving person. I don't see anything good could come out of you getting with this girl with or without leaving your boyfriend. I think God made women for men and men for women and you are being seduced into something that it's not right. Not right before God and not right because you already have been blessed with a good relationship with a good boy so Why destroy it? We don't need more confused people in this world. Stay straight. Don't go experimenting things you are not supposed to experiment.
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