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writes:I have been dating my gf for about 2 years and i really love her and never even thought about looking at another girl.However this year at school, there is a girl who has come up, she is about a year younger than me. And i really think she is pretty. And ive told her this.She says that she likes me as well. I really want to kiss this girl and she says she does too. I dont want to dump my gf because i love her, but i miss this girl when shes not here and i think about her all the timeIm pretty confused right about now. Any help would be brilliant Reply to this Question
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reader, Blue-Skies +, writes (1 November 2007):
well firstly, would you rather be with a girl you love, or a girl you find "pretty" ? is there more to her than her looks, if so then maybe you should go for her instead, as it seems your are getting bored with your curent realationship as you are looking around for other girls. remember its not all about a pretty face.but i do think if you are looking at other girls, maybe it is time to give you current realationship a rest as it is "boring you"however if you truely love this girl then why think twice about someone else ?think about.. :) good luck hun xmessage me if you want to talk x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): Lust, pure and simple. You can try being single, dating this girl and seeing other girls, I don't believe its a good ideal to get straight into a serious relationship with this new girl as you already got a serious relationship with a girl you love. It all comes down too, do you think as your young you want to explore new relationships more or stay with the girl you love?
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reader, thelovedoctor  +, writes (1 November 2007):
the love doctor is INobviously you have no more feelings for your current girlfriend and need to tell her this. You say you love her but you think of this other girl all the time. If you do not call it off now with your current girlfriend and you cheat on her you will be more heartbroken then if you just called it off now. Finally ask yourself this: Who do you love more?Just because this girl might be better looking does not mean you will get along that well once you start dating.Good luckGod Bless
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reader, Asexy +, writes (1 November 2007):
 "A bird in the hand..."Seriously, you don't want to be the guy who cheats on his girlfriend. And since you love your girlfriend, you should avoid the new girl.Here's the thing: what you're experiencing with the new girl is infatuation. Your heart pounds, etc. Infatuation NEVER lasts. If you're lucky, when it leaves, there's love to replace it. But that kind of luck isn't always there.If you love your girlfriend, which you say you do, treat her how you'd like to be treated. Would you like it if she was talking about kissing with another guy? Don't do this to her.Good luck man.
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reader, jodie +, writes (1 November 2007):
 right bbe!!!!!! if i was you i would consider on makin sure the girl you like would give you everything you want or everything your girlfriend already does give you!!!!!!!! make sure you are 100% sure you want this other gal!!!!!!!! if you're thinking about the girl you're not with even though you aren't going out with her I'm assuming you've got fed up of your girlfriend and find this other gal more special to you and more attractive!!!!!!!!!!!! good luck and hope that advice does help!!!!!!!!!! luv me x
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