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writes:I have had a crush on this guy who works at his families hair dressers for over a year now. He is a single parent and his mother and sisters are sonice towards me. I have developed good friendships with them.One of the sisters was trying to kinda of indirectly set me up but I felt awkward. Yesterday he came in and acknowledged most people except me so avoided looking at him. Eventually I had to say something and he said hello and I said I was wondering how long it would be before he acknowledged me and he apologised. Then he gave me a big kiss. Everyone around looked really stunned.I can tell there is a mutual attraction as he is always looking at me and visa versa.We are both career people. Both he and I teach and own our own houses. Between us there are 5 children.I would like to get to know him better but I do not want to chase him. At the moment we are going around and around. He is not making the move and neither am I. He is a very handsome fellow and lots of girls fancy him so I dont want to be a notch on his bedpost. I felt an unpleasant vibe by one of the ladies in the hairdresser. I feel she has been picking up on what has been happening between us which is nothing yet but people do notice.Any advice welcome!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 December 2009):
I know. It's not easy being the guy and having to ask someone out either. Lord knows I've been turned down a lot. But eventually I found a woman I really liked :). Be brave :). he seems to like you, so you can afford to take a chance. Or if possible, maybe convince one of his sisters that you really like him, but don't know how to tell him. If they like you that much, the might talk to him :). That might be another way of seeing how he feels.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Caring Guy
I am an old fashion girl and find it hard to ask men for the first time on a date. I will do this with guys I know nit not those that I hardly know. I would feel awful if I was rejected.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 December 2009):
I don't think asking him out on a date will do much harm. A man is measured by actions, not words. So be brave and ask him on a date or something. Just because other women fancy him doesn't mean he will use you. Just take your time getting to know him and see where it leads. It would be a shame if you could be happy together and you never found out. You only need to ask once, so it's not chasing. After that, it's up to him.
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