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I don't want any lies in our relationship and he's going on holiday with the lads! What should I do?

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Question - (8 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *xyclaire writes:

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in our second year I went on holiday with my friends but before i left me and my boyfriend split up. This meant I could have some fun, which I did, meaning I got with another guy.

Now he has planned a holiday with the lads this summer and I just know the opportunities he will get, especially if he is drunk.

I really don't want any lies in our relationship...what should i say or do?

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A female reader, Dawnie United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2007):

Dawnie agony auntI can understand your anxieties but i think you should trust your partner, let him have his holiday and see how things go when he comes back. Then perphaps you two can get away together and spend some quality time alone. Good luck.

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntYou can't stop him going on holiday with his friends, especially after he didn't stop you. Also, if we're being fair I guess you should give him the opportunity to have a holiday romance too.... but it sounds like you're in too deep with this relationship now. Do you trust him? If you do then you have nothing to worry about and if you don't then are you sure you want to continue the relationship? The only way to resolve this is by talking to him honestly.

CD

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