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*azzy
writes:Funny thing...i always thought relationship were easy to read...and now however i am very confused...I've been with this girl for some time now...18 months...there was a spark at the begging...or mutual understanding...something that lead us to be together...i enjoyed it at the beginning...i had no problem spending time with her,talking with her etc. but now things have changed...with me i think.I made a bit of history with this girl...and i can't understand why don't i feel the same anymore?...the only thing i feel right now is that i need some time for myself...a vacation away from her...i don`t know whats changed...but its killing me...and i don't know how to talk to her about this...or what to do in general...i thought i could talk with her face to face...but i`m a bit afraid on how she would react...any thoughts on the situation?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 November 2011):
 It is only natural to feel upset even if it was you that wanted it to end, it is still a sad experience just give yourself some time to grieve for the relationship. You will feel better in time trust me. Just remember that you where not 100% happy in the relationship so it is time now to explore yourself and have some time to yourself.
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reader, Razzy +, writes (5 November 2011):
Razzy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell we talked and now we are broken up...i feel a bit sad but that's it...
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (4 November 2011):
Sometimes our feelings change, we cannot help how we feel. You need to take a break away from your girlfriend to decide how you feel. Just be open and honest with her, I know you don't want to hurt her, but it is always better to be honest in a relationship. Tell her you are feeling confused at the moment and you need some time to yourself without any contact to decide how you feel. It is obvious you need that space to see how you feel afterwards then, and the only way you are going to get this is to talk to her, if you don't you will end up resenting her, and hurting her more.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (4 November 2011):
 Life is like that. We fall in love and then out of it sometimes. It just the way it goes.
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