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female
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30-35,
*saulnier
writes:My fiance and I have been together for just over a year, we have a beautiful son, and he is a sweetheart. He has had some problems, but never given me a reason to distrust him, yet I do. How can I calm this distrust? It's ruining my relationship!!!!!!!
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (23 June 2011):
 look at your own childhood, your relationships with your parents and their relationship with each other. putting your trust in someone i think does not just automatically come, i think that to have blind trust in a person is unrealistic. is there ANYTHING in his behaviour that causes you to mistrust him? do you KNOW he has done nothing wrong or are you just quoting him? if you have only been together a year and you have a son already together then you can't have been together very long when you got pregnant and may be this has some bearing on the way you feel? maybe you feel like you did not know him well enough and now you have this responsibility to each other. it is a big thing!
do you feel stressed with motherhood or anything? stress can prevent us from trusting people. can you talk to him about this?
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