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writes:Hey,Theres this chick ive been really close to for awhile and we sorta went out but not officially when i asked her out she turned me down. She than acted like a bit of a slut and i didnt talk to her for a few months cos of how she was acting but every few days she would msg me saying sry and she waanted to b friends again at first i didnt want to but after she broke down and cryed in front of me a few times i felt bad and decided to forgive her. i thought when this happened i was over her but after that all my feelings came back for her i can't get her out of my mind i dont want to like her cos i dont trust her and of how she treated me b4 but i cant help it how can i change the way i feel for her because this is driving me insane Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): You can't change the way you feel, but you can change the situation.
Speak to her face to face and be straight forward and honest. Demand honesty from her return. If she's reluctant to tell what's up then tell her you don't want anything to do with her anymore.
Chances are she will open up if you do this. If she cried for you then clearly she cares about you.
Communication can go a long way and save you loads of heart break in the future. Trust me because I've been there, done that. You'll thank me (and yourself for listening to me!) later.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (3 September 2010):
 You need to know whether she is serious about you or just using you for attention because she knows she can. Find out what she really wants from you. If she can't tell you straight then it's time to walk away before she destroys you. Hope this helps
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