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*lexanderhan
writes:Ok so, I'm 19 years old and my best friend is 17. I'm gay and she is bisexual. She also split with her boyfriend about a month or so ago and she came around to my house to catch up and what not. We talked and I played some music from a kinda old cd and we were dancing, having fun and a couple of songs down the line an old, slow, sexy song came on and we danced together in a kind of close, intimate way I guess. I sat on the edge of my bed to check my phone and watch her dance, the way her body moved turned me on. She ended up giving me an intimate lap dance and I kissed her passionately. We ended up having sex for the first time since I was in a relationship with her 2years ago. I really love her, she's my world and she knows this but I don't think she wants a relationship with me again. I feel really gutted and I kinda regret having sex with her but strangely enough, in another way, I don't. I don't know, I don't know what to do right now. Suggestions?
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reader, alexanderhan +, writes (12 March 2011):
alexanderhan is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ok, thank you
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 The only thing that you can do here is to talk to her. You say you think she doesnt want to be in a relationship with you but you dont really know the answer to this question unless she told you that herself. So talk to her and tell her how you feel and ask her what she wants.
She has only been out of a relationship a month and maybe her head is a bit over the place at the moment. She is still only young. You say you where with her 2 years ago, so am assuming she was only 15 at the time. She may just be very confused at the moment and unsure of what she wants or who she is. So yeah talk to her and let her put you straight.
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