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I don't think he's gay, but he kissed me on the lips. Why?

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Question - (20 July 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 July 2011)
A male United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

hey, i've been hanging out with this guy recently and stuff, and a few days ago he kissed me.

i'm not gay, at least I don't think i am. I don't think he is either, he's jokingly called people 'f**king fairies' and such.

and it was weird he just kissed me, on the lips, and then acted like it was nothing.

I don't get why he'd do this.

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (21 July 2011):

AvgGuy1 agony auntSounds a bit innocent to me. Depends on HOW LONG he kissed you. More than a 'peck' seems a little like a 'curiosity' thing. If he does it again and/or it lasts longer then he might be 'experimenting' a little. I wouldn't put much stock in it... unless he does it again and it lasts longer... and it freaks you out.

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (21 July 2011):

Boonridge McPhalify agony auntwas it a kiss on the lips or a "french kiss", there is a bit of a difference.

french kissing is way more sexual.

dont go telling loads of people anyway.

sounds bit gay though. talk to him rather than other people.

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A female reader, SweetSmoochy United States +, writes (21 July 2011):

SweetSmoochy agony auntDid he just kiss you and then act normally? Maybe he was just curious?

It's hard to say why he'd do that. If I were you, I'd just ask him about it next time you had some time alone with him. He did a confusing thing, so I doubt he'd mind you asking him what's going on.

Don't start talking to a whole bunch of people about this. When a whole bunch of people (and their opinions) start getting involved in this sort of thing, it gets complicated fast. If you have to talk to someone outside of the situation, pick one person you know you can trust who won't be judgemental. You and this guy have a right to figure yourselves out without a lot of other stuff getting in the way.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2011):

Maybe he is just curious what it is like with a boy and he thinks you are comfortable with him and his experimenting.

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