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I don't think he really wants a relationship, but I need someone to talk to and so... What do you think?

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Question - (5 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 July 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

HI,

I've just come home from a school residential trip to Cambridge University with other schools in my area. I got told by my friend that an old friend of mine was coming too. We use to be really good close friends but just stop talking when we started different schools. I saw him on the trip and started talking and didn't realise how much we had to talk about, it was great. We spent most of the evening together when we went out for a meal with the group we sat next to each other discussing, well, everything. He is so intelligent and I have only recently been thinking that I haven't really got a close friend who I feel is on the same level as me and is interested in the same stuff. We are so similar and my friend says he is just like a male version of me which made me laugh. He is so nice to me opening doors, picking up stuff I dropped, really chivalrous, and since we came back I can't stop thinking that maybe we were meant to be together because we are just like the same person. I just feel really lonely at the moment but he is really shy and is completely all about studying and I don't think he really wants like a relationship even though we were really close last night and his friend said that he is never usually this talkative towards people until now, I just can't stop thinking about it and the fact that I'm the only one out of my friends that is alone and really just needs someone to talk to.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008):

If he is shy as a character he might not come forward, which would call on you to go to him.

So you need someone to talk to. Even if he doesn't like you, you have so much in common that you would be fantastic friends. He sounds like he would be there, and that he is really sweet.

I suggest you keep in contact with him, continue to be friends until you know whether or not he does actually like you. If you assume, and hes this shy, you might scare him off.

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