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writes: I'm 16 years old and have been going out with this girl for about 3 months. We have both been pre-occupied with school etc recently, so haven't seen each other for a couple of weeks. I have also just come back from a school trip and I really fancy one of the girls that went on it. During the trip we seemed to get on really well and I like her a lot; however I'm in this other relationship. I don't know whether to treat the girl who went on the trip as a crush and just leave it, or should pursue my liking of her and see how things go? The major problem is I don't see where my current relationship is going, but I don't know whether the other girl is interested in me in that way that I like her?Help.....!
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Serafin, writes (21 March 2005): Lo mateOk ask yourself this question...How old are you?Right now you've realised that I will tell you about your age and what part women play in it.Its good to hear that you do care about your current gf. Hell, most boys your age wouldn't give going with another woman a second thought, but what you have to realise is that while you're in your relationship or any relationship you're gonna see atractive girls and you're also gonna say to yourself "I'd like her" or "I'dd love to have a bit of her"..this is only natural.Realise that you're at the age of experimentation and that you're gonna get passing interests all the time.First, talk to your gf and explain to her that you're not sure where you're relationship is going. Maybe she feels the same way and also take into consideration that because of school work you haven't spent the time you would like with her. So that's gonna create natural distance.After you talk to your gf, if you feel that the relationship can't go on, be up front and have the courage to say so. It will be easier to end it sooner than later.e-mail me n Let me know how it goes on.
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