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22-25,
anonymous
writes:I'm in a relationship which has lasted a year and a half, suddenly i start texting this guy who's really really nice but i don't know whether i should throw everything away with my boyfriend to be with this other guy. I dont even know whether i still love my boyfriend, and i know i'll be happy with this new guy. What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): i was mad about a guy for about two years. he showed no interest.
I fell in love with another guy, and went out with him for a year and a half. thie previous guy then decided to take an interest.
he was also a nice guy, made me excited, raunchy texts and a really decent bloke.
I ended up breking it off with the guy i was with, and slept with my friend... even though i thought i'd be happy and it'd go somewhere, it didnt. and he thought little of me for dumping my boyfriend for him, and even texting him while i was with my boyfriend..
dont throw away something like this.
A guy obviously cares about you. dont get rid or the person you love for the person you like. its advice i didnt take and regret.
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reader, °Ale°  +, writes (6 May 2008):
 I went through the same dilemma, and I ended up loosing the love of my life over a stupid crush.
I strongly suggest you look very carefully into your relationship before you make any mistakes that you might regret later.
Ale
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reader, rebecca.megan +, writes (6 May 2008):
 only you know the answer to this question. If you love your' boyfriend then why should you throw away everything for a "nice guy", you know nothing about him and it could all end in disaster. If all you've done is texted then don't let that trap you, as texts &online messaging makes up nothing for the real person. &nobody's as perfect as they make out to be.
I think what you really want is a new experience, as your' getting a bit bored with your' relationship you have atm? And want something to spice it up abitt.
if i was you i'd stick with my boyfriend who I've learned to trust, if you know for certain that you'll be happy then take that risk.
But just keep in mind that you could blow everything for nothing, or keep it safe &stay happy.
your' choice
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