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writes:okay so lately im pretty much always in a love triangle. theres this guy i met in school, we hung out and stuff, we even kissed, but then he went to florida to visit his family. i understand that and i wasnt mad at all. over the summer though my friend wanted to go to the movies with this guy but his friend needed a date. soo i was like sure, ill be his date. nothing much happened. then we went on another double date a few days later. so were bowling and stuff and my friends date is just looking at me more. that night he texts me and were just talking, like friends. and at the same time i am texting my date. i was talking to my date about having a relationship and stuff like that. so then the other guy decides to give me the heads up on how he feels. he doesnt like my friend. he likes me. Oh and by the way these two guys have been bestfriends since like... elementary. i want to be with the guy that was originally my date. but when this other guy calls me babe over texting i just get butterflies... he said he does too. and i just love talking to him, we have so much in common. but i dont want to lose the guy that i first liked even if i cant deny the connection i have for this guy that gives me butterflies.i cant keep dragging them both along. its not fair to either one of them. my friend said drop them both. i dont know if i can do that though. i talk to them both everyday. i need help plz!
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reader, bethevans  +, writes (2 August 2009):
 Okay so, i've been in this sticky situation before my dear:). and god i know how u feel lol.. right wel what i did. Was just think to myself.. Who would care for me more, and who would treat me better and i got my answer. i know sometimes it can be different like.. are they both really dead nice to you ? if so you need to wait till this other guy gets home and meet up with him.. see how u feel, because maybe your just happy about this other guy (the new one) more because you havent seen the original guy for a while.. wait til u see him before u make any right/wrong decisions :).. if i were you atm.. i would just sit and cope and wen he gets bak if u feeel u like them both the same Then it's ggna be down to you to decide who's best for you ..
but also if one of these guys is giving you butterflies and the other is not .. DING DONG :) .. you may have an answer to ur solution.. butterflies are the one way to tell if you really cnt get enough of someone.. if your just hanging on to this other guy because of what you had before and because you feel guilty your just gna have to let him down babe :(.. hope all goes well xx
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