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writes:Hi guys, I just want to ask is it normal for a guy to lick his own come? It's just after we've finished having sex, my boyfriend will go down on me and put is tongue right inside me to get all my come and his come in his mouth... I was just wondering if a lot of guys do this? He also gets really turned on and just talks dirty all through sex, even if it doesn't make sense... he says things like 'oh baby you're so wet, it's like you've p***ed on my cock, holy ***k you're so tight' but I don't know how to tell him this is strange for me because he seems to really like it... should I just let him do it and try and enjoy it? Advice would be greatly appreciated, I dont feel compfortable talking about sex to people in my life and just hope to get some positive feedback. I am not doing this to be pervy. Thanks, Jessy Reply to this Question
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reader, Nithyanala  +, writes (10 June 2011):
 oh there are people who like that. if it makes you uncomfortable, let him know. it's a porn theme basically, so many guys have seen it on screen and maybe find it sexy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011):
I had a girlfriend in college whose best friend dated a guy like that. They nicknamed him: "The Cannibal". Whatever floats his boat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011): I think it sounds sexy. I once had a bf who liked to do that,he was one of the best lovers ive ever had.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (9 June 2011):
 Everyone has different things that turn them on. I don't know how many guys like to do that, but enough that there's a name for it: "eating the creampie". It's really not a question of whether it's common -- it's a question of whether or not *you* are comfortable with that and the dirty talk. The relationship isn't going to be fulfilling for you if you're on not onside with what's going on in the bedroom. If what he's doing is getting in the way of your comfort and enjoyment, you have to tell him.
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reader, wantspaintogoaway  +, writes (9 June 2011):
 I personally wouldnt want my own come in my mouth but hey, just ask if he can bring it down a notch. Or have him go down on you before the sex maybe
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reader, mr toyboy  +, writes (9 June 2011):
ok jesse, you have to either learn to accept it or tell him you not comfy. But one thing you must know is that, different things turn people on, which is normal.
My gf likes me talkin dirty to her, which i dont cos it doesnt make sense to me and i feel stupid sayin something i dont mean, but all my last three girlfriends have been like that.
I dont like lickin my cum off a woman, but just watchin it slide out of her turns me on, so diff strokes for diff folks.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (9 June 2011):
 Some people are less "squeamish" about bodily fluids. Others are not. Seems like you have a BF who isn't.
Frankly, it sounds like he's been watching to many bad porns...
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reader, freeme +, writes (9 June 2011):
 I don't know what everyone's else's sex habits are, but the going down on you after sex does seem really strange to me.
The thing is, it might be strange, but its not harmful unless it really bothers you, which apparently it does.
So you need to say something to him about it.
As for talking dirty during sex, that seems to me to be a much more 'normal' or common thing for people to do.
Good sex includes communication. You need to tell him what you like and what you don't like. It's really that simple.
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