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writes:I have a boyfriend and he has been telling a lot of his friends that he wants to snog me, i have just said maybe next week or something like that but soon he is going to get bored and will finish with me. I don't know how to snog so its hard for me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): hii...
hunny, i can assure you that you have absolutely NOTHING to worry about. i didn't know how to kiss my first time, either, and i was really freaked-out about it. all of my friends that had kissed guys before were just like, "ohh, don't worry about it; it'll come naturally once you start doing it." honestly, this didn't really make me feel any better...until i was actually in the moment of my first kiss and figuring out that they were absolutely right. kissing doesn't really take a whole lot of knowledge (although it does kind of help a little bit, because it allows you to know what to expect and such). it just happens. and as for your boyfriend getting bored with you if you don't kiss him anytime soon, soo what??? i know that sounds kind of harsh (lol), but seriously...soo what??? if he's going to break up with you just because you don't feel like you're ready to kiss him, then he doesn't deserve you. you should never let anybody pressure you into doing things that you're not ready for. buuut when you DO feel like you're ready, don't stress about it. just go with the flow and let it happen. ")
good luck, and God bless,
~sarsar~
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