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writes:I was dating my ex for the last 2 years and everything was amazing, but the other night she came around and I was very tired from assignments and tests and she was too from national sports. In the end we had a stupid argument over pretty much nothing and we broke up, she said she just wants to be friends and doesn't want such a serious relationship at the moment and doesn't love me any more (a few days before she was saying she loved me so much more than I loved her).We didn't talk for 2 weeks and then we bumped into each other and hung out and had coffee. We just had a good time and I tried to make her laugh. Then today she text me asking me what I was up to, and we ended up going out for dessert and her saying pick me up at 8, it's a date.This time I did the exact same stuff, made her laugh and be nice, I gave her my jacket when she was cold and all. At the end I dropped her home and gave her a hug. I haven't text her since and she hasn't text me.I don't know what to do, I don't want to be strung along and I still love her, but I don't know if she wants to be friends just in case another relationship doesn't work or something more than friends since what we had was so good and we threw it away because of a stupid argument.I was thinking about asking her to a movie next week, what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): ask her "are we back togather? if not then i want to move on"
This will scare her and potentioly make her realise what she could loose... 2 years is a long time to throw all that away... You have to make her miss you.. dont contact her untill she contacts you, then pop the question above. Trust me its the only logical way that will benifit you. Chasing her will only drive her away. This is from personal experience from many relationships iv been in.
goodluck.
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