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*adlychosen1
writes:HOw can guys that know that they are unatracticve, build up the courage to tell a girl how he feels about her? I want to tell this girl how ii feel about her, but I am not the best looking guy around. you can say I am one of those kids in highschool that don't have experience asking girls out? I just need to knwo te buildin courage up part. that's all tat is stopping me,help! Reply to this Question
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reader, A friendly thought  +, writes (2 July 2007):
 Dear Self-conscious sweety,Here's the thing about high school girls, whether they are popular or not, they are always keeping there eye out for the next cutey. But that does not mean that looks are everything. If you show her that you've got a great personality, and if you still like her after you learn more about her, then go for it.But if she doesn't think you two are compatible, or she is too shallow, then move on. Trust me, she is not worth it. The right one will come along one day. And I know it is tough to wait, but it's worth it in the end. I promise. :)
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 July 2007):
 I'm sure you not as unattractive as you feel you are. Besides most girls aren't that shallow and if they are then who gives a rip about them. Nothing ventured nothing gained, just go up and ask her out the worst thing that can happen is she says no, but just think if she says yes!
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reader, LauraE  +, writes (2 July 2007):
There isn’t an easy answer at all. The only way is to just do it. Keep in mind that if she says no, it will only be a few seconds embarrassment. Being asked out on a date is a complement, so most girls will be flattered and nice about saying no - unless they are horrible, in which case, good riddance. Plan what to say if she says no – something friendly but not at all heavy. Then you can sound like you don’t mind that much, even though you do. If she says no, and you have to see her in the future, remember to always smile briefly if your eyes meet, but don’t stare. Trying to ignore her will just make a bigger issue out of it. And anyway, she might say yes. Good luck.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (2 July 2007):
 Try and catch the girl on her own and ask her to a movie or something. It's a case of just swallowing your courage down and going for it as you only live once! xxxxx
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