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writes:I'm constantly worried my girlfriend is cheating on me. She is not the type but I've been cheated on before and now I can't trust any girl. What can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (23 August 2008):
 Once bitten; twice shy. Cupidguy is right. Your head knows that she isnt but that little nagging voice is hard to shift. You have two prongs of attack;
1) Communicate your feelings and work through this together. Open up to her and I am sure she will understand. If she doesnt then she isnt the one for you....communicate with your friends too who may well be able to help.
2)Try and argue yourself out of it by facing down the fear with the facts. Repeat them and write them down then burn the paper if neccessary...you should be able to reestablish some control this way...
Good luck.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (22 August 2008):
 Not all people are cheaters. We shouldn't consider a person a cheater unless he or she really is one.
I think you have three options:
a) since you have no proof of her cheating, just your insecurity, enjoy her love and be happy.
b) make her and yourself miserable with constant nagging about her alleged cheating
c) break up with her now, so you don't have to worry about cheating but don't have her love, either.
You can choose.
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