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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I just got divorce from my husband which is my second cousin too. I have not announced it yet but his family told some of our relatives. By my surperise couple of my first cousins that were closer to me and we grew up together started acting strange and now they stoped talking to me, they even didn't call me for my birthday. I'm really hurt because my personal life is absolutely non of their business and if they want me for my life style and not for who I am it's better that they are out of my life but I need to talk to them anyway. I just can keep to myself. what do you think about the reason for their behavior and how should I bring it up? I appreciate your opinion.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (3 November 2014):
 There are various reasons people retire if they see a relationship breaking up. Some just don't want to take sides; some don't want to be involved (it's almost as if they think it might be infectious). Some people might even think it's your fault or that you are wrong to break the marriage vows. Who can say?
You just have to weather the storm and believe that things will work out for the best in the end.
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