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anonymous
writes:hey, i am a female and i am a little confused. i went out recently with a young man after two weeks of knowing him. he kissed me on my neck. ears and caressed my thighs and nipples. I don't know want happened but i was wet all over and almost had sex with him. i did not want to be labelled as a slut so i asked him to stop even though i was physically ready. the week after i was wet and my clitoris became hard just thinking about him. because i fought so hard not to give in to him so quickly he now thinks i have been molested or raped. and i am not. i am just a little experienced. how do i convince him otherwise and make him know i am still interested.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (16 September 2011):
 I would tell people who try too soon for you that you like to take things slow.
However, as you barely know this guy and he is so eager for sex and suggests you let a friend of yours, who is more likely to be sexually active date him, I would dump him and omve on.
He is being a pig.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (16 September 2011):
 Is he still calling? Are you still dating? Why you think he doesn't want you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks i will try that
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2011): well, he keeps on asking me if i was raped or molested. like there is no other plausible explanation why i would not want to have sex so soon. i just think that before sex each partner should know the partner's full sexual history via a medical examination and a condom used if they are not ready 4 children.Besides, he tells me if i don't want him i should ask one of my friends to date him because he physical intimacy.
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reader, Lola1 +, writes (16 September 2011):
How do you know he thinks you are not interested?
I am not challenging you, but the answer is important if I am to help you.
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reader, mar!o  +, writes (16 September 2011):
 the best way to do that is to talk to him, tell him every thing u said in this question, don't wait for the perfect moment just tell him
make him know that you're still interested by doing it not by letting him down every time he tries because it makes him think that he doesn't got it any more or that you don't feel that he can do it etc... He can't say all what he feels because sometimes, it hurts...
Anw try your best not to keep it a secret ! Tell him why "explaine"
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