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writes: I met this guy who I work with and fell for him big time, but he's a real 'lad'. He was messing me about a bit so for my 'pride' I finished it. Now he's moving to Australia in a couple of weeks and I can't get him out of my head. Apparently he's got a new girl already. Everyone says he's a player, but his mates say he's never liked anyone as much as he liked me. I think he's just a young lad but I thought he genuinely liked me. Should I tell him how I feel before he goes?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2006): aw Thank you for your answer..I suppose I want him to realise how much I love him.. I feel like I want him to know that I loved him, otherwise it has gone to waste. I don't want to be 'just another girl'. I want to stand out in his mind because I care for him so much. I don't want him to forget me because I know that I won't forget him for a long time, and that hurts!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (25 May 2006):
 Whether you tell him or not depends largely on what you're trying to accomplish.
Are you aiming to make him appreciate what he missed out on by stuffing you around? (Call that "poking your tongue out".)
Are you hoping he'll want to start anew with you in Australia? (Restarting your relationship.)
Do you just want confirmation that he liked you more than he likes the girl he's with? (Thumbing your nose at her.)
Ask yourself what you want to come of your admission, and whether telling him is in yours and his best interests, especially since he's going overseas and is already with someone.
You'll easily detect my point of view here, but look inside yourself and see if you agree or not.
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