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writes:i just need truthful advice and 2 cut a long story short. i'm 24 nearly 25 and cheated on my fiance wit his friend. it happened in07 and only happened twice. I regretted it, plz believe me. u c i started going with my fiance wen i wz 16, i never done all d thins i wanted 2 do in life, sort of meanin, been wit fellas, goin out wen ya want just basic young stuff. my fiance is 7 years older dan me so plz imagine wen i started goin wit him dat he had experienced alot more dan me. so,, i wz brought in2 relationship where we only ever done wot he wanted ta. after a few months 2gether he cheated on mewt his x and got bk wit her. so in d end i got bk wit a fella i wz crazy bout. so after another few months we met again and got bk 2gether. i got completely sucked in2 his style and lost all my friends. i never went out wit dem only his friends. ind end i lost most of my friends and still ave never got bk contact. he started actin his age so i wz never allowed go out wit my sis, bro r friends. i just completley lost my whole youth. in d end we came ova 2 aus and we got on great only all we ever had wz his friends, he never excepted n e girls i got friendly wit and never allowed me 2 even go 2 xmas partys cuz he wz just so jealous. we came home 1 xmas and stayed at home 4 awhile. we both got workin and he decided 2 buy a house which i knew i couldn't afford so he bought it wit his sister and she moved in aswell. der wz me him and her!after awhile his friend who had 2 children decided 2 txt me. i wz due 2 get merried at dis stage. we eventually decided 2 meet up and it happened, it wz like d 1st bit of excitment in my life after 8 years!!!! it happened once more after dat. i put a stop 2 it. I had told a friend in between all dis wot i wz thinkin and wot had happened and so she decided 2 go and tell on me 2 her fiance,, who!! wz my fiancee's brother..!!so he told d sister dat wz livin wit us and she told my fiance. i moved out. i know it sounds so shitty of me, all i ever wanted wz ta live a bit of youth in my life and not always feel like i had no young life. in d end he wanted ta make a go of thins and we came out 2 aus. after a few wks ere of tryna make a go of thins we get d fone call dat d friend i cheated on him wit got killed in a motorbike accident. unbelieveable torture!!! were still ere and just wonderin honestly if we'll ever make a go of it??honesty is d best policy and i know people mite hate me wen dey read dis but remember it took me 8 years 2 do it on him and i regret it every day i live. I'll never no why i done it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): Be honest, tell him what youve done and reward him with a FFM threesome in return as long as you get a MMF afterwards, then everyones happy, let it go, BOTH OF YOU and move on with your lives!
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