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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi ppl please dont give me a hard time i know what im doing is WRONG on so many levels......plz i just want advice...I have been in love with this girl from the first day i met her in college she was always flirty and fun to be with....she then started going with my best mate and they have been together for about 5 years as have i with my gf.A few week ago my mates gf confessed that she had always loved me and we ended up sleeping together i was going through a rough patch with my gf where i just feel like a sex toy and my mate was always at work which made her feel low ....BUT now i cant get her out of my head even though we swore we would never tell but i cant stop thinking bout her and she is just being her usual flirty self.PLEASE HELP ME
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): I would say go for it, but the only thing is I wonder if she genuinely likes you or if she just knew you liked her and took advantage of that in order to feel appreciated. You know? Cause if she doesn't love you back and you try to pursue her and everybody finds out, then you are probably not going to end up with her and you'll also lose your friend and your gf.
But if she really truly loves you back then I think you should go for it. But if she doesn't, then I think you made a big mistake in sleeping with her. Sorry.
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reader, dear deedee  +, writes (20 November 2007):
you are right you should never of done it. May be you should come clean and tell your girlfriend what you did, it will only destroy your relationship if you dont cause your being eaten up by guilt. Do you really love her? (would have you really done it if you did?) if she loves you then she may forgive you, if she dose then dont think your off the hook, you have got some major sucking up to do.
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