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I can't things end like this, can I? He disappeared and I didn't know he had pneumonia!

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Question - (4 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *luvme0723 writes:

Ok so, I was going out with this guy for a few months. It was decent relationship when we were actually communicating. But after having the same problems, repeatedly I ended it. It took 3 weeks to actually leave him. Then one day I stop hearing from him completely. At first i wasn't worried, then weeks pass. Now I'm concerned. So I call him, no answer. I send emails, texts, im's nothing. No reply. Weeks pass and he sends me a text saying "hi". I cursed him out. I was worried sick about him. Come to find out, he was in the hospital with pneumonia. We talk for a while and he tells me that he's dying. He's having complications with his sickle cell. I don't know how to handle the fact that I'm never going to see him again. So a few days go by and some how he finds out that I was dealing with another guy. And he tries to make me look like the bad person because I moved on. Keep in mind that I didn't know about his condition, and we were broken up. So we got into an argument, and things ended kinda nasty. But I sat back and realized that I may never see him again and i didn't want things to end like that. I called him just to let him know that I love him, and I wanted to try make things right. He told me to piss off. Now what do I do? I cant let things end like this can I?

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A female reader, always.you United States +, writes (4 June 2009):

always.you agony auntif something does happen to hiim and you didnt go see him your going to regret it everyday of your life honey trust me. please go see him.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (4 June 2009):

Danielepew agony auntI think you should try to send something to the hospital and, depending on what he says, call him or visit him.

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