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male
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30-35,
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writes:I have been seeing this girl for few weeks now. This past week things have got a bit heated between us in a good way, however she keeps telling me about guys she comes across or speaks to who like her but she doesnt. It always makes me wonder why she tells me? She doesnt start conversation first but when i do she likes to contine texting/calling etc. i say im busy i cant talk so she invites me over to hers just to see her. We havent yet slept together. Is she interested?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (8 December 2012):
 Yeah I think she is interested, am guessing she tells you about these other guys for a reaction from you. She sounds like she is a little insecure so she uses these guys to see if you react to them, plus she probably wants you to see that she is not stuck for offers if you decide to end things with her. However if this annoys you then I think you need to be clear with her and ask her why she feels the need to talk about these other guys. As for her not contacting you first, again I wouldn't take this as she is not interested she is probably wondering if you are interested and so she leaves the first contact to you. My guess is that she has been hurt in the past so she has her guard up.
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