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I can't stop loving him, and he can't stop confusing me. Please advise.

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Question - (11 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *ilydoyle writes:

There's this guy, who i love since year 9. Well, he has a girlfriend which is my friend, but not close. I know it's wrong but i don't flirt or do anything. Except eye-contacts. When i first met him, i just felt like he's different from the others. Yeap, he is different. I kinda observe him, not stalk. I watch him from my seat in class. We're classmates btw. His seat is kinda far, about 4 tables from mine and two tables from back. We both always stare each other. Sometimes i met his, sometimes he met mine. Even my friends told me he looked at me.

Also, we're so awkward when we're alone or talking like there's something... We talked. Only twice or four times. We chat at social network and msn. Only once or three times. But, he updated statuses like 'in the darkness she is all i can see' and stuffs. At the same time he and his gf fought. Plus their relationship is getting bumpy. I heard that they're already split up.

Ah he is really making me confused. And he updated his status about 'i love you more than ever' with an initial letter at the end. He only typed the initial letter. And i have the same initial letter as his gf. But i don't think their relationship was good when he updated that status. Urgh. I hate it. I just can't stop loving him. And he doesn't stop confusing me.

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A male reader, thomas1214 Canada +, writes (11 April 2011):

i stopped reading at the part where you said he has a gf. now you see what happens when you treat things like some twilight movie? rather then telling the person as soon as you like them that you do you stayed quiet till he got a gf and now suddenly all hell is breaking loose and you want him so so soooo badly. well my advice to you is since you stayed quiet to do so until they do break up and he is single. also this thing you say.. love?...its more lust for something that you have created in your head. youve painted something that you want and its not always the reality. focus on school so you can get a good job. then you can worry more about love

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