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I can't really tell if he likes me

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Question - (15 February 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2008)
A female United States, anonymous writes:

So there is this guy at my school, who I only met once. My friend introduced us (just as friends)..she does it often. But with him, It was way different. She was not only introducing me, but a couple friends as well. When she said my name, He repeated it after her, he looked at me straight in the eyes, and we both froze. It was hard to explain, seems like everything just kinda slowed down. My friend kept introducing the rest, but he kept repeating my name, and wouldn't stop looking at me straight in the eyes.

I haven't talked to him since then...well, sort of. My friends and I think it's weird because we kinda communicate, without talking. (weird, I know)

Ever since then, whenever I walk by him he won't stop staring untill I am out of sight. When I'm talking to my friends sometimes they just stop talking and say, "Holly shit. He is staring you down"

I'm very shy towards him, So I act as if nothing is going on. I have a habit of looking around alot, either when I'm walking somewere or when I'm talking to someone; and there has been several ocations..actually everyday, when I just look around and catch him staring at me. He sometimes glances, but most time he stares for endless minutes.

Sometimes when he is walking with a friend, and I'm around, he points at me. I can't really make up what he is saying, but all he does is smile...and then his friend just smiles at me. Then again, I act like I don't notice anything.

The other day, I was talking to one of my friends, and he just stood next to us and listened to our conversation. (He thought we didn't notice) I had my friend look at his expression, but he has a blank expression on, everytime. He just listens to what I say, and just STARES at me. Sometimes if I laugh or smile when I am talking to someone, and he is watching, he smirks. (I don't look at him while he does it, I use my periferal vision)

Also, his brother who I personally have never met before (But I know who he is.. you know that kinda thing) Sees me, and just smiles.. then he says something to his friends around him, then they all look at me. I know him and his brother are close but I don't know if he actually knows who I am..

The thing that kinda threw me off, is that my friend that introduced us, saw him in the hall. He saw her and came up and gave her a hug..immediately after they let go, he started a sentence saying "([MY name])---" then he got interrupted by his friend that wouldn't stop trying to get his attention. So, he told my friend he would talk to her later.

I don't know what to think! I do like him..maybe cause we do seem to like alot of the same stuff..but I am to shy to actually go up and talk! I'm getting annoyed of this little stalker phase since it has been going on all year. It's not because I don't like the attention, I just want to get to talk to him alredy!

I know that if I knew he was interested in me for sure, I would have no problem going up to him and talking..but since I don't know what is going through his head, I'm afraid to even look at him.

I need some advice ASAP.

Sorry for making it long, but I had to explain!

Any help would be awesome. :]

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008):

k girl you both of us knows he likes you im almost a 100% sure of it but this can't go on you both are screwing yuorself you guys to talk alone about that! but im sure its goonnnaa go god your love life is so cool by the way i think he likes you cuz he always give his attention to you!! best of luck! just wait a little bit longer for him ... even boys has something to say if you wait long enough

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2008):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntsounds like he likes you :D go for it...just try be more communicative...say hi in the corridor, just a smile can do it :D get his msn or mobile number and get to know each other (y)

good luck-x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008):

He definitely likes you =) I know being shy can be really hard sometimes, but try saying hi the next time you pass him in the hall. Maybe it will help to break the ice. Good luck!

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