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female
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30-35,
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writes:Hey, Ok so basically I have NO IDEA how to read this guy, we are really close friends and I dont know if what he says and how he acts is just flirting or if its just the fact that we are so close friends that we can say and do things like that and it doesn't even matter. (I have recently moved away so its not like we see each other that often anymore, more fb chats and sms, so all these things are over conversations), I do like him so I dont know if this is just me being wishful thinking or what? So here are a few things that I just dont know how to take:He calls me 'Honey' and 'babe/baby' oftenHe askes me if I missed him if we havent talked in a while or havent been able to contact each other, and if I ask him back he will say ''yes'' or ''in your dreams baby'' When Im sick hell try and take care of me through soothing words, and saying that he wishes he could come and take care of me. We have silly pet nick names for each other that we normally always use on each other. We talk 24/7 or as much as we possibly can, telling each other different things about our day and stuff and just general banter and life issues. We sometimes skype each other and though this we end up talking for about 3 hours, and something stay up until silly hours in the morning. One of our latest conversations was saying ''If I was your girlfriend/boyfried'' as we where talking about x's and he mentioned that his x used to clean his room for him and I said ''ha i would never do that'' and that is how the whole conversation kicked off. Im really sorry if this is the dumbest question and so obvious but I have no idea how to react- we have a long history together and he is one of my closest friends, and even though I do like him I dont mind him just staying as a friend- I dont want to say anything and then end up loosing his friendship. Thanks for the help xx
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (25 June 2013):
Yeah this is the dumbest question. Of course he likes you.
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reader, razzberry0404 +, writes (25 June 2013):
For starters ask him if your feeling closer then friends yourself :-) as well as it does sound like he wants more then friends. My guy and I was together 14 years ago split moved onen fwbs sometimes and he started acting very similar 3 years ago now ever since dec last year we've been in a serious relationship.
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