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I want a baby but my dad would be really angry with me

Q.   I need some advice. Im an 18 year old women and although i know its still quite young me and my boyfriend of 14 months are so desperate for a family. I would love to have a baby i know how difficult it would be but im sure we would cope. He has a 2 ...

A.   22 August 2011: Thankyou all for the answers. My boyfriend does work full time and im in full time education. I got to college and its free. The mother of his daughter is truly an evil person and i say that with confidence. Im not defending my boyfriend, he pays ... (read in full...)

Do women really like the direct approach my friend says he takes?

Q.   I have recently discovered a very secret side to a good colleague and friend of mine. He’s a few years older than me at 35, not particularly good looking I would think, not really rich either. Just a regular guy (like me!). I knew for quite some ...

A.   18 August 2011: I'll be damned also! Im a young women and if anybody said that to me i'd tell them where to go polite or not. I think your friend is either catching the women who will do anything to get some or hes not letting you in on it all. You seem like a n... (read in full...)

Does all of this sound reasonable? I no longer know what's right or not....

Q.   I have a few questions: Whenever we argue, my boyfriend refuses to make up. When I offer affection, he refuses it. He says that offering affection doesn't change anything and in fact makes him angry because it's a sham - i.e., affection doesn'...

A.   7 June 2011: No! That is not normal! How dare he even suggest that you have to pay back the time you spent argueing with sexual favours or chores, he has no right. It takes two to argue so my question is do you get the time back? does he pay you back your time ... (read in full...)

My partner cheated on me but I do see he had his reasons, can the trust be re-built?

Q.   Ive been in a relationship with a man for 11 years now, for the past 5 years i got diagnosed with multiple sclerosis, i have been very ill and over medicated on many meds, and when my partner is home on leave from working at sea, all i do is sleep ...

A.   9 May 2011: That's absolutly terrible. And i personally dont see why he deserves another chance. You're wrapped up in bed in agony and he's sleeping with a women from Singapore? I understand why he must be frustrated with the whole thing but the reality is: ... (read in full...)

My feelings have went flat toward boyfriend, is this normal?

Q.   Hello all. I think i need some advice..its always the same issues with me but they get better...then come back haha. I've been with my man now for nearing a year and Im 18years old. At the beginning of the relationship there was butterflies and ...

A.   26 April 2011: Thankyou so much guys. You all helped me see the reality of things. I know that the feelings wont go but then i'll look through these answers again..thankyou so much. And thankyou Odds for that link it has alot of usefull information i'll be sure to ... (read in full...)

I can't live without him but my emotions are telling me otherwise.

Q.   Hello. Im 17 nearly 18 years of age and i have been with my boyfriend, Gunner for nearing 8 months now, i know that it isnt that long compared to others on here but i still love him. Recently i had quite bad PMS and it made me feel like i didnt love ...

A.   9 February 2011: Thanks for the light tennisstar, it shone the light abit. But my only issue with that would be 'I thought pms/pmdd went after you've come on?' and this just hasnt, and I just dont know what to do. It's primarily targetting my boyfriend, making me ... (read in full...)

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